Woke Up Today @supertiagirl - Tumblr Blog

there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

jhzwashere-deactivated20210411

THIS 👏🏾RIGHT 👏🏽 HERE

#this

The truth about it all is that YOU were the one who left. YOU left, I didn’t. So if YOU want back into my life, YOU need to be the one to make amends with ME, not me making them with you because while you were busy leaving...you forced me to come to terms with my loss. You forced me in that moment to make amends with myself over the situation you created for me in my life. I always wanted you and still want you in my life but I never left you, you left me. You caused the pain and sadness and heartache. You forced me to be alone and heal alone and live my life without you in it. But I never forced the same upon you. I never purposefully inflicted harm onto you, you simply forced me to become independent and independent without you. That’s why I’m hard to reach, hard to find, and hard to talk to. Your actions showed me how easy it was for you to abandon me. To give up on me. To walk away. You chose to leave and I gave you space because I love you. But you “gave me space” because you loved yourself and just didn’t want to deal with me anymore. You left and I had to be okay with it. You could have talked to me back then or opened up about the situation you were dealing with but instead you walked away. I always wanted you to be happy and loved and cared for, did you ever want the same for me? You made me question everything while I never wanted you to feel like you had to question anything. Im not the one who needs to make amends. I’m not the one that needs to make things right.

#Xavier #XJD #Cruz #loss

gaycommunist

losing more than a friend (the one that got away) 2/3

part 1, part 3

sandra cisneros “one last poem for richard” excerpt // pinterest // david levithan // wislawa szymborska “nothing twice” // pinterest // flatsound “you wrote ‘don’t forget’ on your arm” // pinterest // richard siken // @meerkuesse // lillian hellman // @bestdressed on instagram // pinterest

#this #Xavier

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took it personally because I never would’ve done it to you

#this

brainless-out-deactivated201812

This is so relatable, I’m dying.

systlin

LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK

ruinedchildhood

Cake: The Movie (2020) dir. David Lynch & David Cronenberg

#tiktok #everything is cake

vesface

#covid-19 #coronavirus #this #oh my gawd

jupitersmusings

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

overlord-fire-bubble

THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.

imlej-deactivated20201207

Good things are happening 🧿

Things that are meant to be are falling into place 🧿

allie-lyre

*Slams reblog button*

viwy-deactivated20220410

manifestation bitches

witchcraftandcream

fucking manifest that shit

sophiathesunflower

the manifestation of all of my dreams and goals will happen starting today! Manifesting this into existence!

#this #manifestation

j0jin-deactivated20210309

ip2lb

Person: [Plays C, D, E, F, G, A, and B on a piano.]

Cat: [Meows a C, completing the scale]

#music #animals #cats #pets #cute #kitty

kiwimidnight

The mistake in all of our thinking is that we each believe ourselves to be an independent entity. One self beside countless other selves. While in reality, we’re all just fractions of an infinite whole.

ꓷ A Я K (Season 3, 2020)

#dark #darkedit #darknetflixseries #dailynetflix #filmtv #dark netflix #dark spoilers

cruelladatrille

How much of the “i hate being an adult” is really just feeling the crushing preasure of capitalism

aspiringhuman-deactivated202010

Bruh like all of it

Man eating rice, China, 1901-1904

comradepiyaz-deactivated2016020

this is an extremely important picture

fear-and-trembling-pdf-deactiva

Ive never seen someone from 1904 having fun omg

scootsenshi

He has a nice face

fearwax-deactivated20200108

No but the history behind this picture is really interesting

The reason that everyone always looked miserable in old photos wasn’t that they took too long to take. Once photography became widespread it took only seconds to take a picture.

It was because getting your photo taken was treated the same as getting your portrait painted. A very serious occasion meant so thst your descendants would know that ypu existed and what you looked like.

But one time some British dudes went to china to go on an anthropological expedition, and they met some rural Chinese farmers and decided to take their pictures. Now, these people weren’t exposed to the weird culture of the time around getting your photo taken, so this guy just flashed a big grin during the photo because he was told to strike a pose and that’s the pose he wanted to strike.

thisisarebeljyn

I think painted portraits and old photos give us the idea that in general people were just really unhappy because those are the visuals we have. This is so refreshing.