Surimiri @surimiri - Tumblr Blog

Yo! Welcome to the blog!

The name's Surimiri but you can call me Suri. I am a 25 year old artist from Finland. This is my main blog and my SFW account where I post my animal art (mostly about warrior cats and/or drawings of anthro animals)

If and ONLY IF, you are over the age of 18, feel free to follow my human art side blog where I post and talk about more mature topics. Mostly about Apex Legends- Revenant especially. Located here.

#pin #introductory post

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Reading a book about the psychology of friendship (that, oh by the way, taps the ace and trans communities in its discussion not as clinical categories but by including anecdotes from people in those communities!!) and somehow it encouraged me to quadruple down on saying:

We literally do not have enough friendships. Our culture's obsession with romance over friendship is shockingly new (1850's on) and it is having a serious impact on our health across the board, specifically men. This problem has become sharply exacerbated in the last 20 years.

We need more friendships. We need more friendship in media. "But what if they kissed?" What if they didn't, and the love that was there mattered anyway??? Take my hand. Imagine this with me. A relationship unbound by law or expectation. People who choose one another again and again. To stay in each other's lives when there are no societal tethers holding them together.

Go read Platonic by Marisa G. Franco (PhD).

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men really be like “well this woman has studied this subject her whole life, and i am a man, so we have equal knowledge on this”

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it’s ok you could have just said “i hate men”

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okay, i hate men

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i talk abt major events in warrior cats like i was actually there at sunningrocks fighting riverclan myself

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mentioning four trees, snakerocks, and the thunderpath as though i live in the forest w firestar……

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this is the best paragraph in warrior cats

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hi, a lot of you need a perspective reset

the average human lifespan globally is 70+ years

taking the threshold of adulthood as 18, you are likely to spend at least 52 years as a fully grown adult

at the age of 30 you have lived less than one quarter of your adult life (12/52 years)

'middle age' is typically considered to be between 45-65

it is extremely common to switch careers, start new relationships, emigrate, go to college for the first or second time, or make other life-changing decisions in middle age

it's wild that I even have to spell it out, but older adults (60+) still have social lives and hobbies and interests.

you can still date when you get old. you can still fuck. you can still learn new skills, fashionable, be competitive. you can still gossip, you can still travel, you can still read. you can still transition. you can still come out.

young doesn't mean peaked. you're inexperienced in your 20s! you're still learning and practicing! you're developing social skills and muscle memory that will last decades!

there are a million things to do in the world, and they don't vanish overnight because an imaginary number gets too big