Asexuals and aromantics are actually allowed to do anything they want forever, and it's okay if allo people don't "get it". You don't need to be the perfect aro or ace in order to be aro or ace, I pinky swear
on the note of asexuality let me remind you all that attraction ≠ libido
you can be horny as fuck and still not find anyone attractive enough to do the do with
you can be horny as fuck and still be sex repulsed (this one’s fucking annoying to experience but very valid regardless)
you can even be horny as fuck and deem it not a priority and ignore it!
just because you have a sex drive does not mean you should feel like you have to act on it and having a sex drive does not make you any less of an ace person
(and reminder that being attracted to someone romantically can lead to a desire to please in a physical way even if you’re not attracted to the thought of sex itself! doing it as an act of love is just as valid as doing it for stimulation’s sake.)
