You asked him. Itās hard to grab Sousukeās attention in the first place, and even if you did manage to get it, it doesnāt mean heāll act on it. He doesnāt feel as though he has much tact when it comes to the beginning of a relationship, so itād be up to you to be brave enough to talk to him first, introduce yourself, and then eventually ask if heād like to go on a date. Doing all of these things does make you more attractive in his eyes, though.
Who initiated the first kiss?
Sousuke attempts to, but you make him nervous. He hadnāt had many steady significant others, and as he got more comfortable around you, he wanted to do more to show his affection for you. He had already failed to kiss you on the first date like heād wanted to, his nerves getting the best of him, but now that the two of you were alone in his apartment, watching a movie, he built up the confidence to go for it. It comes as a surprise to you because you were almost positive you were going to have to just kiss him to get it over with, but when his lips hit yours it felt like heaven, and you wished youād kissed him sooner.
Who said I love you first?
It was something you both felt, and understood about each other, to the point it didnāt have to be said at first. You were both content showing your love through action rather than words, but it doesnāt mean those three little words were never exchanged. When he first said it, it was like a whisper, like he half-hoped you wouldnāt hear him, but of course you did. It gives him more confidence when you say it back to him, and though itās not said aloud often, the love you have for each other is made clear daily.
Who would have the others picture as their phone background?
Rin would have set your face to Sousukeās background a long time ago, when he had first sensed his friend had a crush on you. Sousuke thought you might find it mildly creepy, since you didnāt know his feelings for you, but never remembered to change it as he didnāt stare at his phone often. Eventually, when you do notice, Sousukeās heart dropped because he expected some backlash, but instead you laughed and ordered him to let you take a picture of him, so that your background could be like his.
He does. He feels like he should be the one to do it, considering you were the one brave enough to make the very first step in the relationship. He wants to be the one to take the initiative to show you how much he cares, how deeply he feels for you, and how much he wants that to last forever. It would take a few years before he comes up with a simple, but romantic proposal idea, but he figures itās better to be sure youād tolerate each other rather than immediately jump into such a commitment.
They were one of his most hated chores as a kid, especially when he was forced to help out in his familyās restaurant. Doing dishes at home is a considerably less stressful type of job, but he still doesnāt prefer to do them. Heāll clean up after himself, though, and doesnāt tend to leave dirty dishes lying around.
Whoās the first to wake up in the morning?
Sousukeās used to waking up incredibly early, so he can get in a daily jog and before his shoulder was injured, he would go to swim immediately after. He also had started to work at his familyās restaurant lately, and was used to waking up early so he could continue to jog, but also be at the restaurant early enough to help the other staff set-up. Heās careful not to wake you up in the morning, and he does admit that he enjoys having some alone time to think if you sleep in.
Who gets to pick the movie type on movie nights?
He doesnāt have a huge preference in movies, as long as they arenāt too stupid (purposely stupid is another genre heās not fond of, but he can deal with). He actually enjoys some of the romance movies you watch, especially if the relationship/personalities of the couple in the movie remind him of the two of you. Otherwise, heāll probably suggest some type of drama movie (knowing itāll be interesting) or a thriller.
Who lavishes the other one in gifts?
Sousuke isnāt a big gift person, and heās not great at choosing them either. Heād prefer you outright tell him if you want something, and depending on the something, heād try to get it for you. He feels mildly uncomfortable if you give him gifts, even for a special occasion, but heās never ungrateful and thanks you for thinking about him.
Who worries more about the other?
Considering Sousukeās situation with his shoulder, and the surgery that could potentially fix it, you had a lot of worries that probably overshadowed anything he could possibly worry about when it came to you. You canāt always tell what heās thinking, and he doesnāt always verbalize how he feels very well, so it can leave you feeling in the dark about what heās going to decide to do with his future. He does try to calm your worries by being comforting, but sometimes, you just canāt help it.