Becoming My Dream Girl In 7 Months
So I randomly came across @2prettyās Ā 12 Month Dream Girl GuideĀ and I absolutely loved it because in all honesty it was so similar to a post Iāve been trying to figure out how to write so Iām so excited to start it tomorrow
Now, herās is for 12 months but I donāt have 12 things so Iām aiming to do it in 7 months ready to go into 2022 as the best version of myself possible.
My dream girl is honestly just a better version of myself.
Sheās naturally beautiful and is never seen not looking great. Sheās always dressed appropriately and her hair nails and makeup are always done to perfection. Even when she doesnāt wear makeup she has semi-permanent beauty modifications to enhance her natural features such as eyelash extensions. Sheās a natural conversationalist and always has something interesting to input into any conversation. Sheās intelligent and always gets outstanding grades on her work. She exercises daily and plays tennis often where she socialises with the affluent. Her life is organised, sheās never late and her spaces are always tidy.
Sheās extremely studious and intelligent and reads books daily
Her life is organised and she keeps her space constantly tidy
Always looks good and is dressed appropriately.
She plays tennis weekly, always eats healthy and exercises daily
She routinely posts content to help other women as well as posts fashion content consistently and gets free clothing.
She has enough money to do whatever she wants with
She has a good grasp of her mental health, Is in her feminine energy, always kind and considerate to people, speaks slowly, clearly and good vocabulary
Now to split these into months.
āļøJune (starting tomorrow)āļø
Extremely intelligent and reads books daily.
For the next 7 months I will be following the 8 8 8 rule on weekdays and the 8 6 10 rule on weekends. This is 8 hours of sleep 8 hours of work and 8 hours of relaxation
Spending 4 hours of my relaxation time reading
Impose 3 hours of screen time a day on my phone
Complete 4 hours a day of educational work towards my a levels (I dropped out of physical school for mental health reasons but I do the course online without any deadlines so I do schoolwork throughout weekends and summer)
Watch the news and listen to a current events podcast daily
Iām starting this on May 30th/31st depending on how long it takes me to plan everything but Iām trying not to procrastinate so Iāll start ASAP.
Her life is organised and she keeps her space constantly tidy
My focus for July will be implementing and maintaining a structure in my daily routine as well as staying organised and tidy.
Implement a strict morning and night routine with skincare etc
Tidy my room every night and deep clean every Friday.
Plan my entire week on a Sunday with what Iām doing every day and which days Iām taking off work (Iām self employed)
Implement a rule that if something comes up I canāt change it without a weeks notice. For example if a friend wanted to go out for Lunch on Wednesday unless I had opted to have that as a day off the Sunday before I couldnāt change it to go out with said friend.Ā
Make myself stick to whatever I had planned to do for the day.
Always looks good and is dressed immaculately
A Level Up Goal have been working on lately is my appearance, mostly fashion wise. Iāve tended to wear overly revealing clothes in the past but I really donāt like it as It makes me feel uncomfortable.
Lately Iāve been completely overhauling my wardrobe and Iām among to do the biggest wardrobe clear out in August so that I only have clothes that are elegant and that I like wearing.Ā
You can view the aesthetic Iām trying to work towards hereĀ however this is taking a while because clothes are really expensive. Especially because Iām moving away from fast fashion brands like SHEIN and PLT in favour for smaller brands with better quality items, which tends to be more expensive.
My Goal for August is to literally NEVER look bad.
Getting my nails done constantly as and when they need it.
Getting Eyelash extensions as I feel like I always look better with eyelashes
Either getting brow lamination or something else to help make my eyebrows look good without me having to touch them
Whenever I go out I MUST wear something appropriate, even when going to the supermarket or a friends I must wear an outfit that looks nice and also comfortable.
Only wear loungewear that looks good and throw out any tattyĀ āhome clothesā
Continue my skincare routine so that I look good without makeup
Continue to Invest in my wardrobe
She plays tennis weekly, always eats healthy and exercises daily
In September Iām going to start going to tennis lessons once a week and practice as much as possible.
I have wanted to learn tennis as part of my hypergamy journey for the longest as itās a great way to meet affluent people, but you do need to know how to play.
In addition to this its a great way to be active!
Routinely posts content to help other women
I feel like society is really failing women I the fake feminism thing, Liberal feminism often puts women at a disadvantage as they promote acing like men and women are equal before we actually are equal.
Things like 50/50 which lmao no.
My Dream Girl would consistently write posts that will ACTUALLY help women out by teaching them self worth and not accepting less than they deserve.
Hypergamy and only dealing with HVM. š
Posting 7 times a week, 3 full informational long posts like this one and my textbook chapters and, 4 (probably more) replies to any asks so make sure to ask me any questions you want answered.
I will write all my long posts over the weekend and schedule them then reblog them when needed
Reply to any and all asks as detailed as possible.
She has enough money to do whatever she wants wit.
As I said, Iām self employed so November will be focused on ways to make more money.
Iāll spend this time getting ready for the Black Friday/Holiday season an maybe starting another business.
Iāve ALWAYS wanted to be a lifestyle coach and do the things I do on here for future clients.
Talk through the issues theyāre currently going through and give them a short term life plan similar to this post in order to reach their goals
Help women with their level up goals and to marry hypergamously.
If this is something youād be interested in please let me know! Itās my absolute dream and I would love to help you. Sit down with you and make plans to reach your goals no matter what they are.
She has a good grasp of her mental health, Is in her feminine energy, always kind and considerate to people, speaks slowly, clearly and good vocabulary.
In December I really want to focus on the mental side of levelling up
Work on becoming more feminine in my mannerismĀ
Smile at everyone as much as possible
Compliment at least 2 people a day
Go out of my way to help people when given the opportunityĀ
Practice the way I speak everyday
Read some period dramas to enhance my vocabulary when appropriate
And thatās everything. Iām so excited to become a new person by 2021. Iāll try to Ā keep everyone updated every week and on significant days. If youāre also doing this please let me know so I can follow your journey too!
Iāll update you on how the first day goes.Ā
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