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[switchbox]

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[christel-thoughts]

Cicely Tyson is 93 today!

Happy Birthday to the legend - Dec 18, 1924

[so-dayi-trillerz]

[purringshiva]

merry christmas 

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Tumblr algorithm:

[furiousgoldfish]

“Abusers like to remind you how you depend on them, how much you need them, how you can’t do without them, but the truth is the exact reverse. Abusers are the ones who need you. They can’t be anything without victims. They can’t be strong, important, powerful or relevant without destroying someone who is stronger, more relevant and more human than they are.”

— they’re nothing without you. (via furiousgoldfish)

[xdracuellax]

[sirsbabybear]

I learned about domestic and emotional abuse here. I learned what gaslighting was here. I learned that what he did was not okay here. I learned the difference between BDSM and abuse here. I learned that I wasn’t a freak here. I learned what I like here. I learned I wasn’t alone here. Tumblr was safe. Tumblr was home. Where do I go if I’m being kicked out of my home?

[cordineclubarchives]

This happened last time I’ve got busted by the conductor in the London tube … LOL!!!

Ropes by Andrea Ropes

Model: Bliss Theadora

London Tube, March 2016

more here —> http://www.andrearopes.com/bliss/

[verticaljones]

My intentions for this are to be much smoother but then I get to overthinking and everything starts to fall apart. 😭😭😭

[so-dayi-trillerz]

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[profeminist]

Oprah Winfrey: “For anybody here who has an ancestor who didn’t have the right to vote and you are choosing not to vote…you are dishonoring your family, you are disrespecting and disregarding their legacy, their suffering and their dreams.” http://abcn.ws/2Qa1dUf

[profeminist]

Please share this simple #1-2-3 with anyone who says “voting doesn’t matter”

[switchbox]

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[theropegeek]

rope and photo by me; model:  @camdamage

[a-divine-lich]

;)

[thoughtsof-r]

[kraizynkonfuzed]

Apology languages is new to me 🤔

[thoughtsof-r]

yeah i had to look that up as well. but that’s a dope an important concept as well

[trappeds0ull-deactivated2020072]

!!!

[unclewalk-deactivated20190218]

Apology language? I gotta look into that.

[owned-little-kitten]

Interesting! Another thing learned.

Though I’m not surprised. I need five things in an apology.

A) recognise what you’ve done

B) acknowledge what it did to me

C) fucking apologise (lotsa people think simply expressing a) or b) was enough, it’s not)

D) ask for what you can do to make it up to me (don’t ask for my forgiveness - that’s up to me to decide if and when I forgive (plus it makes an apology sound terribly self-serving))

E) let’s talk about avoiding the same in the future

[yunggalmari]

gonna start implementing this

[sweettea-and-honeybutter]

Interesting 🤔 I never thought about apology language but honestly that’s just as important as knowing how your potential partner handles grief and anger

[mareethequeen]

Here’s the link to an apology language test

Here’s one for a love language test

for those that are interested 💖

[thadelightfulone]

Thanks, I’ve done the Love Language but I am curious about the Apology Language one.

[jazzbreak]

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[so-dayi-trillerz]

[excdus]

Barbara Kruger

[goldauraguru]

The African Renaissance Monument in Senegal, larger that the Eiffel tower and the statue of liberty .. Things you don’t see in mainstream media. @KrystVegaNeteru

[geoffsayshi]

This is beautiful.

[nerthos]

I think this picture better illustrates the size of that monument.

[cheskasmagicshire-deactivated20]

I never even knew this existed this makes me so happy to find out about it

[so-dayi-trillerz]