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I wish I had kinky friends to talk about things with, because I have great news to share.

and I suppose I want someone to think out loud to, because I wouldn’t have expected it to be great news. and that means I need to correct some flaw in my self-image.

#text post #about me

there’s nothing better than someone inflicting your kink on you more cruelly than you would

#text post

thelovinglyobedientwife

Well then….. no explanation necessary. ❤️

littlemisssubshine

Yessss!!!

new experiences tonight: finding a shard of glass in the folds of my pussy. 0/10 do not recommend

#I'm not sure which aspect of that to put emphasis on #text post

justifiedsurrender

In general, I’ve really “gotten along with” people who call themselves reaction junkies or similar, because having someone pay close attention to all the little ways I’m reacting (or, *fans self*, commenting on them) is really super hot to me. I’m not sure what to call liking that except, I guess, being attention-seeking. Oh well, fine. I want people to pay attention to me in that specific way because it just feels great, ok?! And anyway, a bunch of doms and tops express having that preference, so probably I shouldn’t feel so weird about liking being on the other side of it.

But another dimension of it is that one of the failure modes of ~mainstream~ sexuality is that you’re expected to react a certain way to certain things that are considered good sex, and if you don’t feel the right way it gets awkward. The “I like reactions” people feel like the antidote to that, because they often want to mess around and experiment, to figure out what gets the good reactions out of that particular person. Besides being hot to me, that’s just also a really fun and comfortable way to approach sex or play.

#yes yes yes

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qcrip

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nsfwaegis

brain: do some figure warm-ups you fool

me: just how much pseudo science talk do you think chell and glados do in the bedroom for kicks???

#ChellDOS

lesbianrey

i think……..one of the many problems in how sex is perceived in society is that we seem to think its this isolated “skill” like people are very anxious about getting experience or practice or whatever wrt sex but that’s not really how it works, it’s fundamentally an expression, a conversation; two-sided, subjective, situational, and figuring out what works for everyone involved, as opposed to being just another objective talent to master for all situations as if its one-size-fits-all without consideration to your specific partner

romancesuggestions

You’re the one I was meant to find.

sleepylittledomme

I want someone to come play with my boobs while we snuggle. My titties deserve attention today. They’re pretty.

savannahkills

This is possibly the best Parks and Recreation blooper

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Oh. My. God. 😂😂😭😭

#literally my reaction when I was slapped the first time was 'do that again'

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Honestly when your girl is sitting on your lap and youre playing with her and whispering in her ear about how turned on she is…like thats some good shit right there.

dommestic

Humil-elation

Sometimes it’s nice to tilt their chin up and ask them to look into your eyes when they say something that is somewhat humiliating. They may keep closing their eyes, but firmly ask them to repeat it until they can maintain eye contact with you as they say it.

Honestly, I don’t even remember what I asked him to say. But I won’t soon forget those submissive, somewhat desperate eyes looking back at me.

deeperforme

Yes

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If you truly think only a submissive can think of their dominant as a god-like human being, you’ve never seen how a dom looks at their sub with pride and endless love, worshipping their very being.

You are our everything. We need you so much. We appreciate and adore you in ways, you could probably never do by yourself. We want to take care of you and satisfy every need you have, sexual or non-sexual.

When we look at you, we feel like looking at Heaven itself, I can guarantee you that.

And if your dom doesn’t make you feel like that, I’m here to tell you: you deserve better, because you deserve everything.

#he does make me feel like that