I'm a huge fan of your work. Can I ask - How did you develop the ability to write so well??? Trying to teach myself is extremely difficult so would appreciate any tips you can throw my way❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! Honestly, by reading a lot and learning what kind of stories resonate with me.
This is me coming at it from a psych background, but I think art is a very introspective process with a lot of self-exploration. I think that developing personal style is a hallmark of skill (especially in these AI times where you don’t need a soul to sling a technically-sound sentence together) and that every artist just needs to find their thing!
Find your thing, learn it inside and out, and then find a hundred different ways to take it apart and explore it on the page. Most people already know what they love (we search for books by genre, we search for fics by content tags), but the artist digs deeper to understand the how’s and why’s of a certain story’s appeal.
For me, it comes down to this: Be it for catharsis or escapism or comfort or whatever, some human need is being fed when we latch onto a given narrative. As a writer, you must identify and understand a hunger to know how to feed it.
My “thing” is humanizing, but not redeeming, the monstrous and otherworldly. Dark romance and folkloric themes are my main tools for that. There is a hunger to be loved, or at least coveted, by what we fear (especially when that fear is justified). This is the human need that my fics try to feed. The desire to be loved by an abuser is considered shameful (and indeed Theon spends much of my stories ashamed) but is so human. I held a space for readers to simply feel things that are deemed unacceptable in other spaces, and have that catharsis, that comfort, that grief. It’s not for everyone, but I wasn’t aiming for everyone.
Identify the themes and concepts and tropes that really appeal to you. Analyze what about them you like. Write the narratives you want to read. Find the hunger you want your story to feed. It takes time and practice, but your particular voice and style will come through.
Be compassionate with what you learn about yourself. Don’t be ashamed of the things you like, be it scary or sexual or “cringe” or whatever! There is so much flawed media out there that people adore because it resonated emotionally (Twilight gets by on sheer vibes to this day). If your thing is psychosexual horror, the feelgood romance audience is never going to get what you’re doing. That is ok! I’ve been in workshops where the people who knew where I was coming from got it instantly, while the people who were never into my kind of work suddenly became illiterate looking at it.
tldr Writing is communication. Technical skill can mostly be learned by mindful observation of other works, but voice and style is where the meat is. Don’t chase perfection or palatability, find what you like and fixate tf out of it. Build your voice and style on the backs of your passions via practice and shameless introspection.