Grey System

Welcome to our page! We are the Grey’s. There’s quite a few of us in this system (50+), we haven’t been medically diagnosed yet but we believe ourselves to have OSDD-1b, ADHD and Asperger’s syndrome but we are still learning. We are polyfragmented and traumagenic. What we do know is that we are Family. Bare with us, it’s gonna be a crazy ride. Body is a minor Host: @Cactiivx

[systematic-greys]

(PSA) Things you should know before following or interacting:

We’d like to share a bit about us so you all can understand our Family a bit better and who we are in the system:

We all speak English, some of us know other languages/parts of other languages. These are only those who will be posting here or talking here at times.

Collective pronouns: They/Them or E/Em/Eir

(post written by 🛡)

DNI if you’re:

-Ableist

-Christophobic/will insult others beliefs

-Aphobic

-Homophobic/Transphobic (we understand some people may not believe it’s correct, that’s okay, you are entitled to your own beliefs, just do not wish harm upon anyone or offend them/push it onto others)

-Are or Support Zo*philia, Necr*philia, Ped*philia, Inc*st, robos*xuality etc.

-Are going to insult DID, OSDD, DDNOS, BPD and other disorders including Systems/Plurality (We ARE real and different people, whether you accept it or not)

-Anti-fictive-heavy systems

-deitykin/godkin

-terfs

-pro-thinspo/pro-ana

-body shamer

-Sam Gladiator

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Some things you shouldn’t bring up to us at all (may or may not be triggering to some alters):

-politics

-antichrist/christophobic ideas

-satanic rituals and similar actions/ideas

-s*xual comments

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Cactii (🌵):

Her separate Account: @cactiivx

-Host

-She/It

-Greyromantic Asexual

-Christian

-16

-Also Host of the Intersperse subsystem

-Anthropomorphic Coywolf with cactus spikes in its hair?

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Inj*ctions, Self H*rm, Holes/Cracks, Extreme graphic descriptions of G*re, Christoph*bia, Homoph*bia, Transph*bia, Zo*philia, Necr*philia, R*pe, S*xual comments & Disrespect towards others beliefs/religions, JustaMinx, Sam Gladiator, Jschlatt

Heisalor/Hels/Helsknight (🛡):

-He/Him

-Protector/Gatekeeper

-Holds all of Cactii’s Memories, knows the most information about the other headmates

-Helsknight Fictive (I’m not evil)

-Likes Drawing

-Introverted

-Aromantic Asexual

-26 y/o (Twin of 🏹)

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Don’t talk bad about/Don’t talk about hurt towards Wels or Evil Xisuma. (Hermitcraft)

Welsaere/Wels/Welsknight (🏹):

-He/Him

-Protector

-Welsknight Fictive

-Brother of Heisalor

-Unknown Sexuality

-Likes Music

-Ambiverted

-26 y/o (Twins with 🛡)

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Self H*rm, Su*cide, talking bad about Hels

Claire (👓):

-She/Her

-15 y/o

-Likes School

-introverted

-Bookworm

-Unknown Sexuality

Don’t Mention/Triggers; R*pe

Robot Grian/RG/Ro (⚙️):

-He/It

-Emotional protector

- Asexual (unknown romanticism)

-Robot Grian Fictive

-Introverted

-Sentient Robot

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Machines taking over, treating machines as inanimate objects, robos*xuality (romanticism is okay just not s*xual things), hurting/evil NPG (Hermitcraft)

Marcie Jones (🪃):

-She/Her

-Emotional protector

-Australian

-24 years old

-unknown sexuality (most likely Aromantic asexual)

Don’t Mention/Triggers; (N/A)

Matthew Rivera (🔆):

-He/Him

-Married to Esther

-Mexican American

-34

-Christian

-Straight (Assuming by his marriage, but not said)

Don’t mention/Triggers; (??)

Esther Rivera (💠):

-She/Her

-Philipino

-32

-Christian

-Straight

-Likes singing

-Introverted

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Politics, r*pe

Dee (🎮):

-She/They

-Loves Music

-Loves gaming

-Aromantic Asexual

-16

-Teen alter

-Ambiverted

-Host of the Acapella subsystem

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Suic*de, Offensive comments about ones appearance, Injections

Julieca/Stella (🌌):

-She/They

-Miraculous Ladybug Julieca fictive

-16

- Acapella subsystem

Jiro Kyouka(🎧):

-They/She

-17

- Acapella subsytem

Don’t Mention/Triggers; (su*cide, self h*rm, politics, s*xual trauma, dere*lization)

Rachel Adams (🪵):

-She/Her

-Extroverted

-Unknown, assuming in twenties

-Unknown Sexuality

Don’t Mention/Triggers; politics

Aquila Apollos (🦅):

-He/They/Ae

-Shape-shifts into others

-Anthropomorphic Eagle

-Mischievous

-16

-Teen alter

-Extroverted

Don’t Mention/Triggers; s*xual comments, su*cide

Lucillio (🌅):

-He/They

-Brother of Nicillio

-Introverted

-Ageless (?)

-Aromantic Asexual

-Takes on a sky-blue humanoid form with a top-hat and tux, tall

Don’t Mention/Triggers; S*xual Comments

Nicillio (🌌):

-Nightmare?

-Actually nice

-He/It

-Protects

-Extroverted

-Ageless (?)

-Aromantic Asexual

-Takes in a Galaxy humanoid Form with top hat and tux, tall

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Holes/Cracks, S*xual comments

Wildflower/Corilena/Cori (🌺):

-She/It

-Ageless (?)

-Vegetarian

-Takes care of Nature/Animals

-African

-Introverted

-Aromantic Asexual

Don’t Mention/Triggers; Animal Abuse, Hunting, Processed Meats, Zo*ophilia

Ms. Quinn (💼):

-She/Her

-Business lady

-34

-Extroverted

-Aroflux Demisexual

Don’t Mention/Triggers; R*pe, Zo*philia, Necr*philia, inc*st

Tubbo (🐝):

-He/Him

-ADHD

-British

-17

-Dream smp Tubbo fictive

-Introverted

-unknown sexuality

Don’t mention/Triggers; ???

Ranboo (👑):

-Hey/They

-Introverted

-Dream smp Ranboo fictive

-17

-Aromantic Asexual

Don’t mention/Triggers; Graphic descriptions of gore

Himiko Toga (🍓) :

-She/They

-Extroverted

-Himiko MHA fictive

-16

-Aromantic asexual

-plz don’t be mean to her she’s not rlly mean she’s an emotional protector and she’s actually rlly nice please don’t;; (-Cactii🌵)

Don’t mention/triggers; ???

Shoto/Shouto Todoroki (🀄️)

-He/him

-Aromantic asexual

-Shoto Todoroki MHA fictive

-16

-Introverted

-Anxiety

Don’t mention/triggers; abuse, loud sounds, s*xual abuse

Tommyinnit (🧭)

-He/Him

-Straight

-Tommyinnit fictive

-16

-Extroverted

Don’t mention/triggers; Self harm, Su*cide

Steph (🧩):

-They/He/She/Any

-20

-Extroverted

-Competitive in sports

-S*xual protector and Caretaker

-unknown sexuality

Don’t mention/triggers;???

Gisbee (🍭):

-She/Her

-Little

-6 years old

-introverted

-that’s all you need to know abt her she’s not going on tumblr we only gonna talk about her

False Symmetry (🗡):

-She/Her

-False Symmetry fictive

-25

-Introverted

-Aromantic Asexual

Don’t mention/Triggers;???

Sakura(🌸):

-16

-Cactii’s sister

-She/Her

-Straight

-Extroverted

Don’t mention/Triggers;???

Have a good day -🛡

[systematic-greys]

Cactii: *grabs neutral colored shirt*

Dee, Ranboo and Aquila: *chants* GENDER. GENDER. GENDER. GENDER.

Cactii: …

Yeah I have no idea what goes on either.

-Cactii 🌵

[systematic-greys]

Edit: I joined the gender party too now, we find androgynous aesthetics and chant about them.

-Cactii 🌵

[plural-culture-is]

Plural culture is talking to your headmates about how you're surprised you don't have a certain fictive, only for said fictive to appear like, "Hello, did you call me?"

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[ivelostallhopeinmyself-deactiva]

Is it normal to try and constantly prove that you’re faking?

[the-cabin-complex]

Inside every person are two wolves. Wait- hang on what’s this guy doing? Wait why are there three wol— FOUR wolves? You’ve gotta be kidding me this is not— shit, fuck I do NOT have the supplies for this did someone order extra— oh my god why are there eleven wolves here what the actual—

[mosscaller]

Why am I like this?

[systematic-greys]

Cactii: *grabs neutral colored shirt*

Dee, Ranboo and Aquila: *chants* GENDER. GENDER. GENDER. GENDER.

Cactii: …

Yeah I have no idea what goes on either.

-Cactii 🌵

[dizzy-critter]

Hello, fellow introject alters of Tumblr!

y'know, it's okay if you don't relate to your source.

it's okay if you do relate to your source.

it's also okay if you only partially relate to your source!

it's okay if you remember a completely different canon than your source.

it's okay if you remember more than one canon!

it's okay if you're not comfortable sharing you're an introject online, or if you use a different name when you're online.

you are you, you're not your source, and you're beautiful and valid either way.

- Adam + Cherri.

[justanothersyscourse]

AHHH, MOOD

[chibird]

Plant diversity is important, and human diversity is too! 🌱 I’m glad we’re all different, and I hope all those differences are accepted and celebrated.

Chibird store | Patreon | Webtoon

[systematic-greys]

Y’all we back

[systematic-greys]

Guys we’re going on an indefinite hiatus, at least for a few months or the whole summer, not sure when or if we will be back but thank you for the support everyone.

-The Grey’s

[systematic-greys]

Woah we got 50 followers how’d that happen- nice and thanks!

-Cactii 🌵 & Aquilla 🦅

[systematic-greys]

How do you celebrate the birthday of the body when it’s the first time you do it as a system?? For the past like I dunno, seven fricking years it’s been just me, Claire and a few other alters and we didn’t even know we were separate-

-Cactii 🌵

[reveriesystem-backup]

It’s mental health awareness month! How to support someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder.

If they disclose to you that they have DID:

DO:

• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.

• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.

• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.

Helpful things to say or ask:

• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?

• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”

• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”

• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”

• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”

DON’T:

• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.

• Ask them what their trauma is.

• Call them crazy.

• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)

• Bombard them with questions.

• Demand proof.

• Force then to switch as evidence.

• React in an unkind or rude way.

• Minimize or invalidate them.

• Tell them DID isn’t real.

• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.

• Demand any answers from them.

Unhelpful things to say or ask:

• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”

• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”

• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”

• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”

• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”

• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”

• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”

• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”

• “Tell me your triggers.”

If they’re switching or dissociating:

DO:

• Be patient with them.

• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.

• Politely ask who’s fronting.

• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.

• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.

DON’T:

• Snap or clap in their face.

• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.

• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.

• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.

• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.

• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 

DID is a highly stigmatized disorder. People fear disclosing this disorder to their loved ones, because their safety could be compromised. They trusted you enough to tell you. It is your job to create a space of love, acceptance, and respect for them.

🖤 Delphine

[bumblebeebubs]

One of my BEST FRIENDS has a form of this. Of course I'm gonna reblog. I love them uvu

[the-starry-night-system]

I have did and my friend said there isn't anyway you have it, you8life sucks enough. So don't pretend to have people in your head.

-clover

[babyseraphim]

WHAT TO DO IF YOUR FRIEND OFTEN GOES NONVERBAL

So, as someone who is selectively mute/prone to shutdowns, people don’t often know what to do when I go nonverbal, and it’s not like they can ask, so I’ll give some tips!

Ask them what you should do while they’re nonverbal before they go nonverbal.

Keep in mind that for some people, nonverbal means they simply can’t talk but can still communicate through writing, texting, nodding, etc. But, for some, it means they cannot communicate at all (and this can change based on the type of episode as well). If this happens, just be patient, and be somewhat still. If you talk, try to talk softly.

Some people like to listen to others talk when they’re nonverbal, and some don’t. Talk to you’re friend when they’re verbal so you can find out which is best for them.

If you’re out and about, make sure that you make it obvious that if you have to talk for them (i.e. order food for them, thank the bus driver, tell someone they can’t speak, etc.), that it really isn’t a bother.

DO NOT RIDICULE THEM. Do not make fun of them, do not get visibly frustrated, do not get angry, do not try to force them to talk. This will only make things worse.

Being nonverbal is different for everyone; if you know your friend is known to go nonverbal, ask them what you should do in that situation. For some people it’s not a big deal, but for some people it is. Ironically, you have to communicate with them (while they can, of course) to find out what is best.

[systematic-greys]

This is about the 5th time I’ve confronted my mom about OSDD and I’m finally noticing some progress, okay so she did end up noticing the symptoms i was showing when I told her yet again but at least this time she didn’t go full out at me and just accepted what I was saying. For some reason she sides the want to take me to get help and stuff like that and she thinks that alters and I are like the same person (even when I tried to explain) but she’s not getting as heated up when it’s mentioned. I’m not saying it’s 100% good at the moment but at least it’s not at a point where she’s super angry, and maybe one day I will get treatment about it. Also my sisters know and they’re chill with it and even try not to mention anything triggering :)

-Cactii 🌵