i’m stuck between tritype 794 and 792 to me.. i oddly relate to both 2 and 4... how can i decide between them? i don’t see a lot of explanations of those specific tritypes
279 is triple positive, so they hate to consider anything melancholy, sad, and/or face the bad pieces of themselves. 479 has the melancholic, mopey “life sucks and then you die” 4, so they will be a little more introspective and self-focused when it comes to their feelings.
2 and 4 are opposites and I was torn between them as fixes for a long time, because your last fix is a “ghost” that doesn’t do much, but what helped me was to think about how I get people’s attention. I employ the 2ish “bribery” of doing nice things for them (and hoping they will reciprocate in kind) and tend to think of others’ feelings ahead of my own. That is specifically a 2 thing: other people and their emotional state and needs come before me and my needs.
4 fixers pull away from people more (out of a desire to be pursued, a fear of not being wanted, and some snobbery in terms of not wanting just any plebeian) and are more self-absorbed, because their feelings come first.
2 fixers want to be seen as good, compassionate, and helpful. 4s don’t prioritize those things and would rather be seen as above the common horde.