The 4HM have been discussing a few things and I thought I’d kinda clarify what we’ve been talking about:
1. We aren’t going to add members to our group chat. Period. The four of us got super tight-knit super fast and we don’t wanna throw off our dynamic by adding another person.
We were considering possibly adding to the group until Dot started receiving nasty messages. There’s no way for us to tell if the person sending the anons is the person who wants to get into the group. And there is no way in hell I’m going to let somebody who had the audacity to call her a cunt anywhere near us.
2. Just because we aren’t adding another person doesn’t mean that we don’t love and appreciate everybody else we’ve come to know on here! You’re welcome to come and talk to us and message with us! But we won’t be adding to the group text!
3. You wouldn’t go up to a group of complete strangers and butt into their conversations. So maybe don’t do it online either. I understand that it’s great to have a friendship online! But it really makes the four of us uncomfortable when people start butting in on our inside jokes... I don’t know. It just makes us all uncomfortable.
4. The whole reason we started sending each other weird requests was to make fun of the REAL weird requests we have all gotten. And it’s getting harder and harder to tell which ones are real requests and which ones are just jokes.
By all means, get in on the fun, send us jokes and silly things! But we’re just kinda done with the weird requests for now.
We love and appreciate all of you very much! And I hate how “you can’t sit with us” this sounds, but we’re all kind of uncomfortable and want to make sure that everybody is on the same page!