Buddie Character Study
Eddie:
An isolater.
Afraid of commitment and being trapped in a life where he may be susceptible to falling short of his responsibilities. Religious guilt due to having dwindling faith, not only in God but in himself as well.
Eddie hides his emotions because he’s scared of how deep they are.
Eddie never builds that emotional attachment from the beginning. He has a deep-rooted self-hatred due to years of pressure from society and his parents' expectations. His parents raised him to be a man, and in doing so, never taught Eddie how to be human. This is why he falls back on heterosexual relationships.
There’s a clear line. A role to fill. He only got into a relationship with Shanon. When they met, he didn’t feel forced to perform. But then societal expectations were pushed on him, and she got pregnant. Then, it was right back to those roles.
He was expected to step up, provide, and be a man. Thus, he goes to the manliest thing he can think of: the Army. He had no roles in the Army. Just Eddie Diaz, a comrade, a soldier. He had taken after his parents, throwing himself into work just like his father, and realized this was becoming a vicious cycle. He was taught his entire life that he had to be the one to step up and bear all that weight. So he denies himself pleasures.
Eddie is a physical provider who needs someone emotionally intelligent because his parents never were.
Buck:
A clinger.
Buck hides his emotions, and by doing so, he tends to put on a front that others may see on the outside, but it leads to a deep, irrational fear of people leaving him once they get past the surface level.
In doing so, he craves that emotional connection, anything to feel seen, but it almost becomes excessive. He often comes off as too strong or overbearing because of the attention and love he was denied as a child. Which, ultimately, leads to him having hookups and one-night stands, avoiding those emotions altogether, because every time feelings get involved, and he gets attached, people leave.
Buck wants people to stay because his entire life, he’s been ignored.
He needs to be needed, because he never had anyone who cared enough to acknowledge him or step up and be that rock for him. So he learned how to do it himself. He would pick up skateboarding, get a motorbike, break limbs, be careless, anything to get people to notice.
He realized the only way he could get people to care about him was when he was being reckless. Which is where firefighting comes in, because no one saw firefighters as reckless or irresponsible.
Firefighters were heroes. Firefighters were brave. And all Buck ever wanted was to be depended on.
Buck is an emotionally intelligent person who needs to be provided for because his parents never did.
Two sides of the same coin. Both are providers, both have absent parents, but for different reasons. They balance each other out and exactly what the other needs to succeed.













