I truly feel bad for anyone who doesn’t value friendship. It just blows my mind that all some people care about is the relationship they have with a man and completely disregard the joys that friendship can bring. What do you mean you excuse that man’s weak actions and think that’s the best the relationship can get? And then come running to me that the relationship makes you feel uneasy and not cared for… but you’ll still stay with this guy because “when it’s good, it’s good.”
It makes me lose brain cells every time I hear that. So when you come to me and ask if these actions he does are something to be worried about, and I say yes, those are not signs of a healthy relationship … you get mad at me!? Do I need to remind you, you came to me with this problem.
I’ve officially become the “friend,” that only hears about the crisis going on in your life. I’m not the friend you call when something exciting happened, or you’re having a good day and just want to say hi. That chapter has closed. I no longer should be called a friend in your life by those terms.
In a friendship, you make time for the good and the bad, you check in on them without asking for anything in return, you tell them on a random Tuesday how thankful you are they walked into your life. You have a thousand little inside jokes, you sleep over and stay up way too late talking the night away, go on fun trips and make the most special memories together.
Nothing can replace friendship 💕