To me, the biggest ace-coding of a character is not whether "does this character ever talk about love or dating or sex" nor "would this character ever love/date/have sex". To me the biggest ace indicator is hitting No on "would this character ever lose their head in love".
This is after realizing that "falling in love" basically looks like hormone-induced aberrant mental state, and quite simply, one of the most deranged, unhinged thing that actually happens around is shit that allos are willing and able to do in the name of love 💀
If you are able to think and act rationally in the face of love, fictional girlie, here's your pass to my ace club 🤍💜🖤








