#actuallypots

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hiiiii i'm a wheelchair lesbian really struggling to make it through the canadian winter! my left wheelchair pedal has been falling apart and it costs at least $80 to have someone over to fix it, and i'm deep in debt. my wheelchair situation just keeps getting worse. i also need winter wheelchair gloves & other things to survive, so i'm taking donations and writing commissions & French translation work! i can also do transcription and marketing for small businesses.

anything at all helps!! my hands have been getting really wounded from wheeling in the cold (literally to the point of bleeding) and if my wheelchair falls apart i'm screwed! https://ko-fi.com/nuancefem

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hey, jsyk, you're not lazy. you're a hard worker. you just need the right tools. yours might be bent, they might be too cheap to function properly, they might hurt to use, you might get mocked for using them your own way. you're not any lesser for lagging behind. you just need to learn to use your tools differently, or get new ones altogether. but as long as you're pushing yourself further ever so slightly, you're doing great. you 100% deserve to build a better future for yourself. you will get it.

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just had this family offer me their table, so i took it and said thanks and they kept saying god bless you and the lil kids one by one came to me and said they'd pray for me so i can walk again. literally wanted to look into the camera like i'm in the office...... kiddo, i'll pray for your dumbass brains rotted by your mom who thinks this is appropriate behavior to teach abled kids!!! she kept saying she'd pray for me etc etc. i hope the water in her shower stays cold for the entire winter i stg i'm gonna do a dark wiccan ritual fr. walking ppl PLEASE teach each other manners when it comes to wheelchair people i beg of u