✧.*PAC: Which shadow work do your FS and you need to do before meeting? ⍣ ೋ
“Don’t be afraid of the shadows, it only means there’s a light nearby.”
Pile 1-2-3 will be referred to what shadow work your future spouse needs to do before meeting you.
Pile A-B-C will be referred to the shadow work you need to do before meeting your future spouse.
Pile 1-2-3
Pile A-B-C
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Idea inspired by @poeticgoddessofpeace 💞
PILE 1
(The Hermit- Queen of Pentacles – 4C-2C- The Magician – The Lovers – 7W)
“A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions-as attempts to find out something. Success and failure are for him answers above all.” (Friedrich Nietzsche).
Your FS is an actual introvert! He does not like to show a lot of himself, nor he likes to use his energy on people he does not vibe with. I think it’s pointless for him to try to keep a relationship that makes him uncomfortable. Your FS enjoys solitude a bit too much. Your spouse is someone that’s focused on creating wealth and into being self-sufficient. They want to be someone who does not need to relay on others. I think that is their main shadow work, they need to stop being comfortable just in their own. The older they get, the more complicated it will be for them to start meeting others.
This trait is one that they are proud of, they would rather be alone than not in complicated relationships, trying to change themselves for something they have been able to live without for a long time. They see how the romantic opportunities pass before their eyes without doing anything to reach and catch them. They could pursue people and they could flirt with them, but what point does it make if they do not like them instantly? I think they are devoted to you since birth, even when they do not know who you are yet. They won’t marry if it is not with someone they adore to the bone.
Soon or later, they will have to come to terms with the fact that they want a relationship and on what that implies, having to share their life with others. Their safe place needs to change from their solitude to their companion, their partner. But! When they realise they want a relationship it’s going to be so easier for them… The Magician+The Lovers combo is here. They will have such a facility to create opportunities to meet people and to manifest the meeting with you, once they want it, they get it! They have all it takes, but it’s going to be a bit more complicate to conquest you… hehehe. I think you will be someone with a lot of stress or things to do at that moment of meeting them, so! Your FS will have to fight for your attention, and they could even had to fight with other romantic offers. But! He’s honestly the best one.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: The fact that your fs is so happy in the relationship while be hard for him/her to accept. After living a life of “rigour” and” strictness”, while living in Hermit mode, they will be shocked!! It will be a full transformation or at least a hardcore change on their core values. Also, the fact that they like to control things but now they have to speak about it with you will be hard to change.
Channelled stuff: “Sheldon Cooper from The Big Bang Theory”, “trust issues”, “an office”, “dark hair”, “work”, “the number 7 and 19”, “the sun, a really happy relationship”, “ I saw the sun a few times”, “warmness”, “Capricorn and Aquarius”, “daddy and CEO vibes”, “fulfilment”, “The World Card”.
PILE 2
(3W Reversed – 5C – King of Swords – 7W - 10P – The World – The Lovers (back of the deck)
“...talent means nothing, while experience, acquired in humility and with hard work, means everything.”(Patrick Süskind)
Your FS has had problems with their projects, your spouse has always wanted to pursue what they liked but for some reasons the projects have never flowered in the way they should. This has made of them someone worried, pessimist and not as happy as they should be. They keep always thinking if what they do is enough and if everything they do is useless. Before meeting you, they need to prove to themselves that they are worthy; that they are good, productive and clever.
They have been hit by life from too soon, since they were young, from the beginning their dreams have not had an opportunity to flourish and fly, that has made turn their back on another positive and possible opportunities and outcomes. They need to get “their shit together”, (too rough?). Some pessimism is self-imposed. But I do also think that it’s possible that in these down tunes, there could have been some bad-intentioned people, people closer to them that betrayed them or did not offer them all the support that they needed.
I do feel that they must become someone clever and powerful but soft and nurturing enough to not be feared or misunderstood. I think their success is promised because I think they are hardworking, the fulmination and the end of this cycle will just bring them abundance, happiness and mostly, satisfaction. They need to feel satisfied with themselves, they need to see something that they have created and that is working. Once they have fulfilled these fantasies, dreams and aspirations of them, love is just next door.
Once they feel good enough with themselves, with enough self-esteem, with enough bravery and with their eyes put in other things, love is just next door!! It’s at the corner, pum! They are going to turn the corner and they will find you there with blushed cheeks and with eyes full of surprise and they are going to fall in love with you.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: I think they wants to touch you so much all the time and to hold you between their arms that sometimes it’s complicated for them to leave you or to stop thinking about you. He's always reaching for you but, honestly, you are the one with the power to decide if you want him/her to touch you or not. Emotional dependence at it’s max. Also some external interference in the relationship.
Channelled stuff: “Children Park”, “slides”, “Aries”, “Taurus”, “Gemini” and “Virgo”. The planet Mars is important. “Short blonde hair”, “blue t-shirts”, “a cafeteria”, “a butterfly tattoo”, “cut-throating words” , 'to prove you I am the greatest!".
PILE 3
(The High Priestess – 9C – 2C – The Hanged Man – Page of Pentacles – 7C)
“Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” (C.G. Jung).
A renovation. I think this pile is possibly the most spiritual one, the shadow work your future spouse needs to do before meeting you is directed to his/her emotions and into his/her intuition, introspection work. A shadow work to evolve. Your future spouse is not aware of all the potential and all the talent that she/he has.
They need to use their intuition more, they have to learn that there’s a side of life where you need to use your feelings and hunches, logic won’t just do it. Your future spouse needs to listen to their heart and clarify what they really want. They do also need to discover what’s pure and untouched from their souls. Their bases, their real safe.
To be more in touch with their sexuality and into what brings them happiness, just to discover what they like. Probably, while talking to people different from them. I do wonder if they have never had a healthy family to teach them all of it. To help them discover how safeness and love should feel because they also need to learn how that works.
In summary: they have a lot of untrained potential; they are stuck and still. They have not discovered their talent, nor they have started working on it! They do have to start working right now, they need to move and do things. And mostly they have to narrow their goals, focus on one and work on it little by little.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: Mostly, I think they need to be brave and come to you, face to face. Your fs needs to use his words to be direct. He kind of will be a pleaser to you, always using the “correct” words. I think the fire signs in here will have problems with this “calmness”, I think a few of you need more activity. And will like to tease him just to make him mad.
Another message: +18! your future spouse would love to kiss your neck from behind and grabbing you… just putting a cut of the photos. I cannot put the full picture 🤣.
Channelled stuff: “To be loved by Aurora”, “freckles”, “dimples”, “magic/working as a magician”, “Pisces”, “Gemini”, “333”, “college dropout”, “Shakespeare”, “London”, “A movie about wolves”, “Greek mythology”, “art student”, “little Red Riding Hood”.
PILE A
(3C – Page of Pentacles – Knight of Cups – The Fool – The Magician)
“No, no! The adventures first, explanations take such a dreadful time.”(Lewis Carroll).
This energy was a bit closed at the beginning; I think you all may not like facing your shadow self that much. (no, because, same).
Your main topic to develop are relationships and experiences, as I have been able to sense, some of you are closed. It would be nice for you to create new unions, friendships, and possible romantic connections to just experience what you like, to get a bit of experience and to see how the world works. Obviously!! No need to force anything, but it would be nice to accept your friend’s invitation from time to time and to speak about how people live different things. Their perspectives and opinions, that way you could create yours.
Maybe, also, to work a bit in the professional world, to lay the foundations of your career and to discover what you want, focusing in one thing at the time
One way of live more would also be to offer your help to the ones that need it, express your feelings and be able to discuss and to fight against the “normal”, the “social rules”. At a deeper sense I think you need to be yourself in a really wild way. You need to celebrate your uniqueness and to recognize that you are worthy of all you want. Be unapologetically yourself.
You need to move, to discover, to create, to walk…that way you would be able to create the opportunities you want, because you have the talent (The Fool + The Magician). You got the first two cards of the deck, that’s amazing! You need to recognize your talent and to use it for yourself. It’s a lot of work but it will be worthy.
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: okay, intense!! YOU NEED TO WAKE THE FUCK UP, you are amazing!! I think it would be complicated for you to feel like the Empress that you are!! You will be fighting against your insecurities, and I think you will like to be sexy but these dumb insecurities will stop you. Also, for some of you, it’s possible that you got cheated in a past relationship? You will have doubts about your spouse's loyalty, it’s something you will also need to work on 😭.
Channelled stuff: “travel and trips”, do not be afraid to see the world, if you have the money and the opportunities please travel around! “LGBT+”, “the sea”, “Poseidon”, “Turkey”, “ladybugs”.
PILE B
(The Sun - 10S - King of Cups - Queen of Swords - The High Priestess - The Emperor)
"I like the night. Without the dark, we'd never see the stars."
This pile is going to be intense, be aware. Okay, some of you have been living in a bad losing streak for a long time. It looks as if you had lost your real smile even for years, I would say that some of you have depression or “heavy” mental illness that affect your daily life. This shadow self has been clinging to you.
We got the Sun card, this card is amazing when doing a normal reading but if we are doing a shadow reading, and we get such a light card…it’s complicated. You do not like to even look at your shadow self, it looks as if you were hiding under fake positivism; and before meeting your future spouse, you will have to deal with all of it; you wanting it or not, all of your spirit guides will push you to it. You will have to deal with it, I see some of you going to therapy or facing the people that cause the problems.
To the people facing this person, it’s a male, someone that betrayed you and hurt you. I’m not going to lie, it will hurt to have to deal with years of “short film”, years of not taking care of your self. But, it will be worthy, it will be an end to non-structured sadness and panic attacks. You will end with the constant gibberish in your head.
We also got the most logical queen with the most intuitive woman, the high priestess. So, you will need to balance yourself , and you need to do it with power.
Some of you will be more logical and you need to push your intuitive side. Some of you are intuitive and you need to be logical and look at the global picture.
You will need to grab the bull by the horns. Be strong and be clear on your limits and abilities. And mostly, please take care of yourself.
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: for this pile, some of you will have trouble with expressing how big your love is and to express your creativity with your future spouse. I do also think that you do not like to be pitied by your future spouse and you do not let him/her take care of you as much as they would like. Well, darling you will have to take their love!! Also, a repeated scene is you both on the bed while he tries to caress you lovingly but your eyes are focused on another place, let the man love you!!
Channelled stuff: “sunrise”, “sunset”; “bed”, “clean blankets”, “a bank”, “Financial bank”, “grass”; “flowers”, “living next to a mountain”, “fertility could be a problem?”, “snacks at night”, "444", "moving around", btw! The gif that you choose? Let's hope for your future spouse to grab you like that and show you his love. I would die of happiness if he (Ben Barnes hehehe) grabbed me like that 🌝.
"A witty woman is a treasure; a witty beauty is a power."(George Meredith)
So! You are usually a bit pessimistic? You usually retract in yourself when you feel pessimistic, let’s say you ghost all your friends when you start feeling sad. It’s better to expend those times alone?No, before meeting your fs you may try to change that a bit. Express yourselves a bit more, let’s communicate your feelings and allow yourselves to be vulnerable with others, there’s no need to be always strong and self-sufficient.
Also, you need to start appreciating your efforts and your results, you can not expect to build Rome in one day! Little by little, all things can be done. Before meeting your fs you need to understand the value you have, and understand that you are worthy of all type of nice things!
What worries me the most, once more, is that you could possibly hide in your subconscious a lot of fears, and you need to work on them, but, step by step. Also, the temperance card indicates that you could have little patience (Same!), but as we say in Spain “things of castles go slow”, something close to: "Good things come to those who wait”. You will have try to build your self-esteem and your bravery in a beautiful and strong way. We need to go slow, to not expect a lot at once. Patience is key.
I do also see that you have some projects (mostly related to work/your career) that you may need to develop before meeting your future spouse, this fear could be related to your job? It’s okay, with patience you can do everything!
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: I got a lot of queens…mmm. I think your shadow work to do in this relationship is to accept your place as a powerful woman. You could have your future spouse in his/her knees if you wanted to. Allow yourself to express your desires and your wishes. Do not fall on routines and “sleepiness”.
Channelled stuff: “Ships”, “fire”, “the jungle”, “undressing under the light night ”, “red tshirt with flowers”, “summer tshirt”, “motocycle”, “creativity”, “foreign language”.
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