#agegaplove

[sirravenous2]

Women; oh it's my man's birthday I don't know what to get him?

Get him a blowjob!

The size … your mouth, he be happy as fuck!

[scriptedmink]

Fuck your palace and all the people in it

I’m so angry at you for picking me

Pretty young thing

And dropping me from the highest tower

But I landed on my feet bitch

Meow

[casuallymygalaxy-blog1]

This is Graeme. Graeme is 52 and my husband.

We met when I was searching for a dancer partner. We both do Latin and Ballroom dancing together. 

We got married last year (2017) July 22, in a forest in front of 3 witnesses, God and a giant tree (hundreds of giant trees actually).

He smells amazing every night before bed and it drives me wild.

He is pretty fit and lets me call him daddy sometimes.

We’re both animal lovers and went vegan together.

Btw. I’m 23. We live in South Africa and you can find 3 news articals about us. One in the Daily Mail (UK), one in a local mag and one from the local radio station.

[sirravenous2]

Anyone can love you when it’s easy.

When the bills are paid,

when you’re laughing more than you're arguing,

when everything feels light & fun.

That kind of love is simple.

It’s the kind of love that shows up for the pictures,

for the date nights,

for the “good mood” days.

But real love?

It’s different.

Real love shows up when things get hard.

When you’re both exhausted.

When the house gets a little bit messy & the stress feels endless.

When one of you shuts down and the other doesn’t know what the hell to say.

Real pure love, well

It’s choosing each other through the storm,

even when the silence feels louder than the words.

It’s forgiving, learning, trying again over and over, even when it hurts.

Real love isn’t just about the good days.

It’s about the ones that put you to the test!

The nights you may sleep back to back but still wake up trying.

The arguments you don’t walk away from.

The moments you could give up.. but you don’t.

Real pure committed love is messy.

It’s raw.

It’s far from perfect.

But it’s steady.

It’s loyal.

It's worth the effort.

And it’s the kind of love that stays...not because it’s easy, but because it’s what is in life that's worth living for.

I personally don't know how else to love when I'm in love.

[sirravenous2]

An idea of loving someone for fear of being alone?

Make me laugh more please!

Shit like that is said by those who don't want to love one, and consistency is only in their eyes looking for another to benefit their moment not their heart and soul for every tomorrow.

An idea of someone to be with?

Haha!

That's too easy.

I made very well be a wordsmith but it's not to bullshit, it's real shit and it's from my heart good or bad but it's always truth.

That's a weak man or a narcissist not a real man who dies survive through it all alone or otherwise!

And with all due respect ladies, I don't agree with you at all saying that I want someone just to end solitude out of loneliness!

I don't & would never fall in love with ideas or the idea of someone.

I've been alone & single for almost 4 years now and I'm fine with all I am, my solitude and the fact that I may in fact live my life out alone because I'm real as well as more honest than anyone I know.

Financially it's absolutely a winning situation for me being alone, or anyone.

If I was someone who gave a shit about material things or money but I couldn't care less beyond my immediate needs being met.

None of that buys happiness time or love.

To have someone to love and be loved by is a sincere purpose and not just an idea to me and never has been an idea.

Love like I seek is rare, or extinct maybe?

I've met no female that believes in a devoted relationship with one & only one eternally.

Relationships and marriage has been something sacred to me since I can remember memories, based on my grand parents who were together happily before their children, grandchildren and great great grandchildren and after and died one after the other, my grandma first naturally. Their relationship was never in a mentality or having feelings of animosity or anger and abuse towards each other.

My grandpa worked every day but Sunday until his wife died.

He came inside and waited to die after his wife passed because love and his purpose had been served and passed and he was ready to join her again with God.

That's what I base love on. Am I the only one left who wants that with only one woman until it's over naturally?

Being devoted and committed to that one & only woman in happiness loyalty and communication that's never ignorant or with any hate or disdain?

Never physically or mentally abusive.

Generous & giving.

It seems I may be!

I guess it's time to face facts that my person won't be found or just fall in my lap.

What woman on earth actually with sincerity desires an intimate one love, including loyalty, respect, honoring the unity and contentment of a love in action & effort that never stops but gives by choice every minute of every hour every day infinitely?

Extends trust long enough to see it's real and the only changing is better and brighter!

That's the only way I know how to love, how to relationship right by my own definition after living life, experiencing life, my children, loss of one of my children and of love in a unit.

You think I don't understand what love is, why love is sacred & how to give it?

Two whole people giving 100/100 because it's worth it & this stability can be counted on because this love don't leave or abandon, it's truth, it's alive and a verb.. a pure touching caring love.

The only changing is the change of older in aging, becoming better versions of who we are & what we committed to be to each other.

I'd rather be alone with a dog as my companion then faking shit, being with someone that's faking shit, or loving an idea of someone or being with someone not in it for real like I am sincerely on purpose!

I don't fake devotion to God or to someone I choose daily before my eyes open, and loving with commitment!

Although men in general I've heard too many times from most women including my daughters, may say the same horseshit to persuade a woman to let her guard down, however time will show my truth in each letter I write and every fucking word I speak! So help me God!

[sirravenous2]

I'd kiss her like she don’t need air.

Hold her like she can’t let go.

Love her like she’d die without me.