I hear trans men call us trans women disloyal to our community and see them treat us like we should be sexually available to them and put their emotions first.
I also hear black women describe similar experiences when dealing with black men.
I hear cis feminists talk about how us trans women are holding feminism back and we should be cut loose for the good of women. I hear them describe us as less feminine, as mannish, as not even real women.
I also hear womanists describe similar experiences when dealing with white feminists.
I hear a lot of my own experiences reflected in the experiences of black women.
I'm a white American, so anything I have to say on being racially oppressed is necessarily the perspective of an outsider. Having established that, I believe that I may find a great deal of wisdom and strength in increased communion between womanists and transfeminists. That's why I would like to learn more about womanism.
I've begun reading Alice Walker's In Search of our Mother's Gardens, which I understand to be the seminal work of womanist theory. However, I assume that womanist theory has evolved greatly over the last 50 years. My primary motivation for making this post is to ask people who are well learned in the womanist tradition what other resources I should look to.
I worry that I have said something unintentionally insensitive, and I know that expecting a minority group to teach you how to be better to them is kind of rude and counterproductive. In case I have put my foot in my mouth, I have preemptively made a donation of $100 to the Marsha P Johnson Institute, a charitable organization dedicated to providing assistance to black transgender women. Hopefully that will more than outweigh any offense that I might cause.