❛Complaining to others does not contradict being patient upon the decree of Allah no matter the circumstances, especially if the one who is complaining seeks refuge with Allah, knows and acknowledges his own helplessness, and awaits relief from Allah alone. And so, he vents and seeks peace by complaining [his grievance] to a loved one he is close to. But let him when doing so, ensure that the person he is complaining to is:
🔹 a loved one 🔹 an honest person 🔹 sincere in his advice 🔹 a keeper of secrets, and 🔹 someone who guides him to that which benefits him.❜
— Sheikh Dr. Muhammad ibn Ghalib Al-'Umari hafidhahullah



















