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[amithedevil]

OP really buried the lede with this one

[unmooredonasundayevening]

r/AmItheAsshole posts are just like:

AITA for making sure my children were fed?

I (49F) am the proud mother of four amazing boys (21, 18, 16, and 15). Recently, my husband (52M) and I took them all on a trip to celebrate my second eldest graduating from high school. Now my boys eat A LOT, and feeding them can be expensive, even when I cook at home. So on vacation when we're eating out, it's a challenge. One night, when we were trying to decide what we were going to do about dinner, we heard loud music coming from one of the ballrooms in the hotel. I peeked inside and it appeared to be a sweet sixteen, and there was a buffet being set up in the back of the room. So rather than spend money on dinner that night, I suggested the boys go eat at the sweet sixteen. As soon as the buffet was done being set up, my boys filled up some plates. They were getting seconds by the time some woman came up to yell at them. I asked what was going on and why she was harassing my boys. She said that they were "ruining" her daughter's sweet sixteen, and that they might run out of food for the invited guests. I asked her if she had any sons, and she said no. I explained to her she couldn't possibly understand the joys and the struggles of being a boy mom, and that my sons were eating at the party because it would cost too much to feed them at a restaurant. This woman just didn't understand and hotel security hauled my boys out of the ballroom! And everyone in the room was staring at them as if they had done something wrong! All I wanted was for my boys to have an affordable meal. AITA?

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[violue]

I honestly can't tell if this post is an "obvious troll" or if I'm just hoping it is. There's a very good chance it's fake but I had to share it.

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I'm sure most have heard of the CW show "supernatural". About two brothers who fight demons and monsters.

My sister was a huge fan while the show was airing. Engaged in all areas of the fandom, like, insane super fan. I never really got into it like she did but was still involved in fandom spaces.

Anyway, no beating around the bush, she was hugely into wincest (the romantic and sexual relationship between the two brothers). Wrote fic, edited youtube videos, etc. She even made like a wincest tumblr series with her ex girlfriend roleplaying as the two characters.

So you can imagine my shock when she gave birth to twins this past month and announced their names as Sam & Dean.

I was a little taken aback but hoped somewhere that it was a joke. They have three older kids who also have fandom names (not supernatural necessarily, but across fandoms) and so I wasn't really holding up hope.

I called her up and asked what the boys names really were and she informed me they were, in fact, called Sam & Dean.

I told her it was really fucking weird and she told me it didn't matter because they weren't real and she didn't actually condone incest.

I called her a freak and said it wasn't normal or fair to the boys. What if they found out, you know?

She told me I was overreacting and to either support her bringing the babied into the world or leave her alone.

I left it at that & my mom later text me to ask what was going on. She knows my sister used to ship the brothers so I told her and she was quiet but ended up telling me that it wasn't the same and I needed to apologise because she was upset.

I disagree. I think her choice was horrible and she deserves to feel shamed for it.

So, AITA? Am I actually in the wrong here? I know she's struggling right now, but still.

ETA; Additional information; They have a son called Severus and they seem to be encouraging "snape" behaviours in him (keeping his hair long, forcing him into like, chemistry summer camps and shit). Makes me feel like they're living vicariously through their kids or something.

comment: Lucifer and Castiel are strange to name kids, Sam and Dean not so much.

OP reply: Sam's middle name is Lucifer! They were talking aboht Castiel for their firstborn but ended up naming him something else.

comment: What did they name the two girls, who did they name them for?

OP reply: Cersei & Katniss. I don't know what their "plan" is for Cersei but Katniss has already got her little toy archery kits lol.

comment: INFO: is her partner aware of her incestuous fandom?

OP reply: I think so. I'm pretty sure they met on tumblr.

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[notthe-op]

AITA for not attending my friend’s wedding on the day of my family’s death anniversary?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ljaump/aita_for_not_attending_my_friends_wedding_on_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Update: for not attending my friend’s wedding on the day of my family’s death anniversary?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lxfk2w/update_aita_for_not_attending_my_friends_wedding/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

30,169 votes and 983 comments so far on Reddit

[thelonelyrainbowguy]

AITA: Stay With Me edition! 🤣

[datarep]

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[mysliceofmango]

What happened here?

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