#and consideration

[thoughtsthatmightbehumorous]

Luigi Mangione has made his first public statement! Tbh it's a very nice public statement. Considering the circumstances

[sweagen]

[borderlinereminders]

My partner has a food allergy and I always check my food to make sure our orders weren't mixed up, just in case. You're making a lot of excuses for your partner because the intent wasn't malicious, but it was dismissive. He's a selfish man who doesn't give a shit about your needs and you let him get away with it because you don't want to be seen as a hysterical woman turning an accident into drama. And you apologize for him feeling bad just like he wants, you to apologize to him, you to share the guilt, you to be emotionally coerced into letting him off the hook. When you break up and date someone who genuinely cares about you, you'll be shocked at how much they care about you and how many of these little accidents don't happen when they're looking out for you as much as you do for them.

Wow. This is quite the accusation, anon.

In case anyone is wondering I’m pretty sure this is in reference to this post of mine.

I am in a really confident place in my relationship but maybe don’t send people asks saying their partner doesn’t “give a shit” about their needs because I can see how that could cause distress to someone. Also your implication that he doesn’t genuinely care about me is a shitty assumption.

Also, I must stress that there is a huge difference between a food allergy and me not liking something. I’m sorry if I gave the impression I had an allergy. I don’t. I just really hated the ingredients on his sandwich. If I had an allergy, I’m sure he would be a lot more careful. He is very careful in regards to my physical issues as it is.

That post also failed to mention that he immediately offered to drive me an hour back to get a new sandwich.

Honestly, anon, I really don’t know what to tell you if you expect little accidents to never happen.

Maybe this ask came from a good place. But it’s a really shitty ask to send someone over their partner… accidentally eating their sandwich?

[driftingglass]

I’m so shocked at the both posted/non-posted support in response to my secret growing fascination with Dabi/Midoriya. It makes me want to write it, on top of every other project I have. Have some ideas on the backburner.

Thanks for the interest and support! 

I’ll probably be writing it regardless when I’m not working on priorities (which means this won’t happen anytime soon) but I’m curious: would people actually want to read that? It would only be in an AU setting. 

Thank you again. You’re all the best. Love hearing your thoughts, too.

[naaglaya]

the constant inner battle between “i need to be more selfish when dealing with my family members” to “i need to be understanding and caring”

[freepsychicbiscuitfire]

You cannot actually be classy unless you are kind, a symbol of wealth is being able to be generous with what you are given and that’s what these people will never understand

[the-crimson-rose]

PSA

After some thought. I am changing FFXIV Elu’s Blog URL

the-wiltedrose is now @the-crimson-rose

Thanks for reading. <3