my mom really hasn't been the same since her first hospital stay/surgery. her memory is complete shit but since she has regular moments of lucidity and because I'm too exhausted to deal with it, we haven't dealt with it. and I'm so tired of being snapped at and can't predict what will make her snap in order to avoid it. like she wants to be taken care of and yet when I tell her to watch her feet so she doesn't trip over a rug, she accuses me of treating her like an invalid.
this morning upon waking up, she reads me a letter she got saying she lost her Medicare part b coverage. I asked why and she then puts the blame on me and her bf because she got an email telling her to renew her insurance and we never helped her. which I was like ??? what are you talking about, so that caused a fight. and when I asked her if she needed me to sit down with her to go over emails/mail, she said I just wanted to control her life
that's actually the complete opposite of what I want. I want her to deal with her own shit because I'M EXHAUSTED