#androflux

[dysasterism]

I've always told myself my gender does not move. It isn't fluid, it doesn't fluctuate, nothing like that. It always felt so stable. But then some days, I feel more neutrois than male. Then more male than neutrois. I always described this as a seesaw where I'm in the middle, tipping closer and farther from neutrality. It's a sort of... "static" change if that makes sense, because nothing is actually moving anywhere. And that change makes me feel like I am more or less male.

But maybe.... androflux? Maybe that's a thing? (Boyflux is off the table because I'm 35 years old. Manflux sounds weird. Andro was a word I coined as an age-nonspecifc term for people who are male so yeah.)

But also, maybe it just doesn't need a word. I have a lot of labels and at this point, it's a lot of explaining.

Might make a flag for androflux though. Maybe demiandro as well. We'll see.

[tomboymoding]

Alt. Boyflux/Androfluid Flag

Definition:  a subset of genderflux in which one feels fluctuating intensities of manhood.

An example of a boyflux person's experience of gender may be a boy 50% of the time, agender 25% percent of the time, and a mix of the two in-between or around those. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.

Color meanings : yellow for fluctuating maleness, green is for total maleness (could extend to hypergender), blue is for total lack of gender/agenderness, and the deep purple represents being somewhere in the middle.

Any Boyflux or Androfluid person can use it

[pupyzu]

ANDROFLUX

when your amount of “boy” fluctuates.

flag/coined by me, based off of androfluid & mascflux

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[binary-or-naw]

Hello. This is my first time trying to ask someone about this and i feel people will be mad about just posting something about this kind of subject. I don't know what I am gender wise. I asked a friend of mine about this and he told me that i'm gender-fluid, but i'm still not sure. I like being a girl and wearing dresses, makeup, and such, but I feel more confident dressing like a man and using male pro-nouns. Sometimes i just get in the mood that I want to be a guy and stay that way

part 2: But other times i feel as if i would regret it. I don’t know if someone can answer my question or if my friend was right and i am gender-fluid. Please if you could try and help i would really appreciate it and if you can should I ask a different gender help blog? Thank you so much for your time!

Hey, there. I know exactly how you feel, I’m pretty much in the same boat as you. There are a few genders that could apply to how you feel, and really you should just try out the different terms and see how they make you feel. Your friend could be right, and you could be genderfluid. You could also be bigender, demi boy, you could be a feminine boy, androgyne, androgynflux. You could just be questioning, because for some people questioning can be a permanent identity.

But another thing I’d like to address is that if anyone is judging you, or looking down on you, or shaming you, ect. you need to either ignore them, or look them in the face and say “Fuck you.” You are the boss of you and no one should judge you for any reason. Not your friends, family, peers, strangers, not even God. Because the only thing that matters is what you think. So don’t ever be afraid to ask something because you think someone might judge you for it or be mad about it. That shit doesn’t matter.

*End of off topic rant*

If you want to check out another blog to see what they have to say, I’d recommend transgenderteensurvivalguide. I don’t really know of any other, tbh. But they’re great and reliable and really nice so I mean even if I did help you I’d suggest you go to them anyways. They have a gender flow chart that might help you.

~Zeke