You know what really bothers me about Naruto’s portrayal that I've noticed in Boruto?
He acts like his old self around everyone EXCEPT Boruto.
When he is around Kawaki, Sarada (Gaiden), or even Himawari (Parent-Child Day), Naruto actually feels like the Naruto that we grew up with
But whenever he is around Boruto himself? He feels like a completely different person most of the time
I have even seen jokes about how Kawaki feels more like a son to Naruto than Boruto does lol
I agree we see glimpses of Naruto’s old self, but personally, he feels like a different person more often than not.
I get your point though - his dynamic with Boruto is different, because Boruto’s the only one who ever challenges him or holds him accountable. Kawaki worships the ground Naruto walks on, and Himawari just quietly accepts whatever happens. But Boruto has standards.
You see this a lot with parents who grew up deprived, whether physically or emotionally. They work their butts off to give their kids a better life, but the kid isn’t grateful like they “should” have been. They take everything for granted and complain about minor things, like the parent not showing up for a birthday party.
Which is normal! It’s good when a child takes parental love and shelter as a given. That should always be a given. It’s reasonable for Boruto expect his father to keep promises and show up for important events. But to Naruto, Boruto’s grievances probably feel so trivial compared to his own childhood.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Naruto was jealous of Boruto. His mini-me has natural talent, a loving family, and a ton of friends. He has it so good, so Naruto may be tougher on him to “even things out” so Boruto isn’t completely spoiled. I doubt Naruto would act cold consciously, but he’s always had a petty streak, so this wouldn’t be completely outside his character.