#apl help

[apl-culture-is]

apl-spike culture is OMG FRIENDS FRIENDS I CAN MAKE SO MANY FRIENDS and then going why did i do that the next day and slowly trying to ghost them in a not mean way

Hey so I am responding to this one with some advice, you can take or leave it.

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Hey so, it sounds like you are struggling with communication or how to properly manage these friendships you end up in. I don't know you or your entire situation, but try to avoid promises and declarations you can't keep. Reserve all that to yourself. So if you want to move on, it's easier to be honest about why you can't stay in the friendship. Plus if a friendship is fairly new, those people probably don't expect anything big from you and don't care as much if you leave. But communicate about how it's not them, you don't hate them, how you feel about the friendship has changed and that you can't or don't want to stay. Trust me, communicating this may be better than just slowly slipping away and leaving those people wondering.

/nm /srs

[apl-culture-is]

sorry this isn't an 'apl culture is', but can i have your thoughts?i only see people that i speak to as acquaintances and only really make "friends?" if im extremely familiar with them. however, then im unsure if it's because i feel romantically interested in them or if it's just friendship.

I'm actually not sure if there is a definite term for this, but I think you might experience something similar to Demiplatonic or Apresplatonicism. But instead of experiencing attraction after another is felt, it's just how familiar you are. I suppose though that could also be considered Demi. But it's more than being familiar, it's the confusion. Maybe you're Demi+ another platonic attraction. Like me, I believe I may be Demigrey.

Other ones that sound remind me of you are Quoi and Idem.

Idemplatonic might confusing(as it certainly confused me) and there is not a definite definition yet for it. So here:

Idemplatonic would be that you use outside factors to decide whether it's a platonic relationship or not, unlike Idemromantic that does the opposite with romantic relationships.