#apothi ace

[allegoriesandepithets]

Large Pixel Size Apothi- Flags

[PT: Large Pixel Size Apothi- Flags]

Apothisexual ~ Apothiromantic

Apothiplatonic ~ Apothiqueerplatonic

Apothialterous ~ Apothisensual ~ Apothiaesthetic

Definition: One who is a- [attraction type] and [attraction type action] -repulsed and/or [attraction type action] -averse.

I altered the colors of the atertiary flag’s top stripes to better match the ace and aro flags.

All flags are 3000x2000 pixels.

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[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

i swear people just mash random words together like it makes sense when they talk about nsfw like what the hell are you even saying

i feel like my head's in a blender

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

i know this is maybe a given and not every allosexual is like this but lemme say something.

as a person with ocd and who is asexual, i'm usually in my peaceful little cloud of asexuality/apothisexuality.

oblivious to whatever celebrity drama happens, as it shouldn't always matter. i would hope most people know that limitation you know?

until someone TELLS me that "it" exists, i am unbothered and it means nothing to me. its just...whatever, you know?

but then the algorithm pushes it, and sometimes I can't avoid that in real life. the moment that someone feels the need to share something unsavory about someone else's business that i really did not want or care to know, it's a problem. this can be anything, from work gossip, to tv shows, teen rated games even. y'know? the world can be way too gossipy. there's barely any privacy.

....point is. please be careful with what with you say to anyone unless you know its fine. sometimes its impulsive. but don't assume. try not to assume. leave people be. consent applies to everything.

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

*sigh* you ever just....hate the headcanons or characterizations some people come up with for laughs. like its not even that serious but its just obnoxious after a while

"he would not fucking say that" and everything

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

not to be rude BUT i hate allonormativity a lot. what the hell do you mean going on a date means i can't just hold hands and cuddle you and instead you think about raunchy shit while i'm just holding your hand. EW?

what if i want to waltz in a flower field with a pretty person and thats it 😠🤬

in all seriousness i don't know how people mix up romance and intercourse cuz you're just being weird.

i never understood why people don't stop at kissing. what do you MEAN real life isn't PG anymore and suddenly when you turn 18 it turns into a rite of passage. get the hell away from me this isn't a healthy way of thinking. stop assuming what i want!! what's your problem? 😵‍💫

(see i love the idea of having a girlfriend/partner but not when its over-complicated or if you act entitled and like i owe you shit because we do NOT experience romantic feelings in the same exact way since you possibly attach it to a whole different thing. >_>)

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

cw bad joke

me: an apothi ace romanticizing snuggling someone imaginary, buying a house together, living my cottagecore dream, potpurri made of peonies

the allos™️ : S - S- SEX??? 😰

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

when i was in middle school i always knew something was up with me when i realized just how normalized it is to make uncomfortable dirty jokes in a place where you're meant to be concentrating.

i guess i have a pretty face...to men and was known as the "mysterious lone wolf nerdy artist girl"(autistic, queer and terrible social anxiety)

because i had weird boys just messing with me for no reason because they think i'd be attracted to them. or boys just picking on me, tugging at my hair and insulting me like "THIS IS WHY NO ONE LIKES YOU" and projecting on me and wanting me to feel bad for not wanting to be associated with them.

like no i just want to punch your face honestly. but no hard feelings unless you want it to be. even when it was people who were respectful, it was like, people in the gymnasium randomly one day who were like "hey my friend thinks your pretty" and i was like.....dude. i don't care? 😘 i'm an aroace lesbian who despises the personality of almost every girl here

the sheer amount of just NOT wanting to associate with the noisy trouble making kids who have no choice but to be near me in this capitalist uncaring society was just way too much to deal with. i guess i was destined to be numb to what's considered "fun".

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

If you aren't on the asexual spectrum, please don't try to interpret this particular Leith Ross song...

(no hate to the person this just irks me a bit.)

(Even if you have the right idea about the song, you're not equppied for it. This is not intended for an alloallo demographic /gen)