Apr 25
aplatonic, afamilial, aqueerplatonic + aroace culture is being unable to separate ur aroaceness from ur aplatonicism, afamilialism n aqueerplatonicness. i genuinely feel like i wouldnt be aroace if i was also apl, afam n aqpl
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aplatonic, afamilial, aqueerplatonic + aroace culture is being unable to separate ur aroaceness from ur aplatonicism, afamilialism n aqueerplatonicness. i genuinely feel like i wouldnt be aroace if i was also apl, afam n aqpl
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people always love hatibg on sexual and/or romantic relationships in media or fan media and say its cuz theyre repulsed or its amanormative but when I do it to plato relationships suddenly its wrong😒
the aspec community as a whole needs to stop saying any variation of "we can still experience x atttaction!"
aces, you need to stop saying "we can still experience romantic attraction!" that alienates aromantic people.
aros, you need to stop saying "we can still experience queerplatonic attraction!" that alienates aqueerplatonic people.
aqpls, you need to stop saying "we can still experience platonic attraction!" that alienates aplatonic people.
(and yes, i've seen all of these said before.)
we don't need any attraction. none. of any kind. not sexual, not romantic, not queerplatonic, not platonic, not anything. we're here and we're people deserving of respect, attraction or not. aspec people need to stick together. we can't be alienating others from our own community due to their lack of a specific attraction. everyone else already does that. we can't do it too.