@jessiep1107 asked this in the replies of a post w a snippet and it turned into a whole thing sooo have almost 600 words skjdhfg:
Honestly I don't think Aris would propose at all, I think it's very much a one sided thing in terms of the asking. That's not to say Aris is passive, and it's 100% a conversation they've had before, but there's also this sorta stereotype abt hockey players getting married young (depending on show/book canon Hayden gets married at like, 21 and starts having kids not long after) and that's something we don't see as much with the canon GCU couples.
For Mac and Aris their first full season as an out couple (with Mac in Winnipeg and Aris in New York) Crowell actively scheduled them and their games to try to force them apart bc he doesn't want a second generation of queer players, esp not two who came out of their rookie season where the League was trying to position them as enemies and went "how about no" to the league's story. Their second season isn't much better but they have the Olympics, which lets them have a little more time together than normal, even playing on different national teams.
Aris spends most of the Olympics just vibing, he likes the guys he's on a team with (which actually includes Sloane from IF:Deal) and he's securely got a group of hockey player friends that support him, not even touching on the fact that he's Aris Hunter at these Olympics. Yes he wants to win but it's more a by-product of having fun. Like, he's so chilled out he can't really focus much on anything besides hockey and being gay with Mac.
Mac, meanwhile, had a very mundane realization that he's wants to marry Aris ASAP, which was then followed by the realization that no matter how they go about it they're doomed to be compared to the rest of their hockey player queer families. So he's trying to figure out when to ask Aris when they have so little time alone together because he doesn't want to wait for years when they maybe have a shot at playing on a team that could afford them both when they enter free agency.
He 100% ends up trusting the ring to Ash (keeper of all the Hollander-Rozanov secrets) who just sorta has it on him at all times after that, and when he wins the cup c. June 2030 in his first season as the Bisons' captain and the whole extended Hollander-Rozanov family is on the ice for him he gets it off Ash and asks.
Aris isn't blind-sided by it but he is surprised. He knew Mac would be the one to propose bc, like you said, he's much happier giving over control and going at whatever pace fits best. Mac asking ~2 years into being together is a "normal" amount of time but Mac's 22 and Aris is 23 and that's still p young for marriage.
He says yes bc ofc he does and then bc he's Aris and he loves to jump into things all or nothing he suggests getting married that August during their annual Greece trip. And Mac has to take a minute to be like "August 2030? THIS August?" "yep" "fuck yes" bc he too likes to hurtle into things when he's made his mind up.