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Lowkey update on life um. Some stuff happened and I'll be visiting psychiatrist HOPING that they will diagnose me with BPD and not just depression. Like if they tell me its Bipolar it would be whatever (my mom thinks I have it even though I told her my mood changes not in a course of months but HOURS IF NOT MINUTES) like okay just anything that's more in-depth and not just "um you seem really sad and you mentioned SH so um depression it is now get out"
https://www.tumblr.com/ilikebullyingbullies/801220401564876800/knowing-choco-they-wouldnt-care-better-someone
What the fuck is wrong with Bully, dude
Genuinely what the fuck is going on and why would they post that shit
Sometimes, being a system is having an alter who is absolutely obsessed with medical history, surgery, and general knowledge.
Cub was having the time of his life watching the dentists do their job while our partner went through surgery. Not once did he flinch and look away, and he wanted to ask so many questions. But he didn't and chose to stay quiet and simply observe. Love that for him!
We have a part who's unable to view blood in any capacity without wanting to black out. Sometimes, spaghetti sauce is too much for him. Despite this, Red is His Favorite Color.
The violent contrast between the two despite being from the same source is hilarious. It's also oddly affirming to have parts that have such strong contrasts.
Does anyone else have moments like this? I'd love to hear it, even if it's minor!
something that frustrates me to no end even with people I care about is that not everyone understands that animals and very young children have no developed concept of cause and effect; they do NOT typically do bad things to "spite you" and yelling at them or God forbid hitting them will not help. They do not understand why you are being cruel to them, that they did something "wrong"; only that you are being hostile. (If you are hostile often enough, they will learn, though, that you are not stable or trustworthy, and could turn at any moment, causing either distance and/or for them to act out more.)
What is often more helpful is trying to understand *why* the "bad thing" happened; was it an accident? Were they bored/understimulated? Just testing boundaries? Do they not feel well/could they be in pain or fatigued?
Eliminating or minimizing the source of the behavior is typically more effective than just straight reprimand or taking out frustration almost always.
(I am also not saying animals and young children are indistinguishable, moreso that adults treat both the same in these situations.)
That being said, it's OK to be frustrated or tired yourself handling the situation, it's just too many people take that as an excuse to lash out.
And if you have before? You know you have? It's okay. It's not too late to change your behavior, and especially with animals, if it wasn't severe they typically will still warm up to you with some patience.
i always was taught that my one real purpose in life was to have kids, and not only am i a lesbian, but it turns out i have this medical condition that makes it really hard to carry a baby to term. like if i don't have a baby before i turn 20 i'll probably never be able to. before i found this out i had already basically decided that i'd foster kids if I wanted any but now it feels like the choice is taken out of my hands. i hate that the experience is something i feel like i need to be whole
I'm so sorry that's really hard. It's so ingrained into Mormon culture that you have to have a kid which I wish would change not only because AFAB people are worth more then just being there to have kids but also because there are so many people who aren't able to have children for what ever reason and that's such a harmful mentality.
((Tw blood, bugs, unsanitary))Hey sorry this is trans-son-of-perdition's main blog. You mentioned the leeches in the girls camp lake thing. My first girls camp I wasn't told about this until after I'd spent an hour swimming in the lake and still then didn't known until one-two hours later when a swollen leech fell off of me and splattered to the ground. Brighton Meadows is a horrible piece of land to have 12 year old girls unsupervised in.
Holy fuck I am very sorry that's so shitty. The worst we ever had was in southern Georgia we were allowed to swim in the lake even tho there was a chance of alligators and my leaders wanted to canoe up the ogeechee (I know it's probably spelled wrong worry) which has super big alligators in it but enough parents (and me) were angry enough abt that idea that we didn't do it
Happy world with happy people! Happy world with happy people! Happy world with happy people! Happy world with happy people!
Man, I hate when I want to commit emotional self-harm and laugh at losers, so I go on the detrans subreddit like a week ago, and now reddit keeps suggesting it to me - I actually don't want to see people larping being detransitoners for their weird "I-hate-trans-people" fetish anymore I looked once
