Pararelational / Relationless / Arelational attraction (label concept)
(Pararel, Relless, or Arel Attraction for short)
Flag concept 1 and Flag concept 2
a nonromantic, nonsexual, nonplatonic, non queerplatonic, non alterous, nonsensual, nonaesthetic type of attraction. (jfc I know thats many words. I just mean it has nothing to do with those things)
an attraction that could involve wanting to know a lot about a person you admire, without any desire to end up in any form of relationship with them (for any reason!)
Does not necessarily mean you're not open to a form of relationship
similar with regular admiration but exceeds it due to a curiosity for someone's life
could behave what a crush conventionally is like to others, but isn't a crush
Does not necessarily involve idolizing or putting someone on a pedestal
does not mean you're uncaring towards them
it could come alongside other forms of attraction
Flag concept 1 and Flag concept 2 explanations
White - symbolizes awe, intrigue, and enchantment. also symbolizes distilled/or pure intrigue without any form of interaction/relationship based attraction and independence from other forms of attraction. The white stripe is the attraction shining through the barrier
Black - symbolizes barriers / block from relationships or contact with the person. Black also symbolizes how the white attraction is framed in an A-spec context (black is a color used in most a-spec flags)
Gray - a shadow, represents avoiding unwanted attention.
Intentionally similar to the non-partnering flag
and i added a face because why not lol