#aspec coining

[squidfreak]

Repulove

Where one feels repulsed, off-put, weirded out, or uncomfortable with being told "I love you" and may also feel the same saying "I love you (too)" back.

Intended for aspecs but anyone can use!

[medikiss]

✦    Amoraplatonic

Amoraplatonic

A term on the aplatonic spectrum for when instead of platonic attraction, you experience a strong alterous attraction that mimics or is similar to (but is not exactly) romantic attraction.

In other words; experiencing a strong alterous attraction, that mimics or is similar to romantic attraction, in place of where your platonic attraction 'should be'.

⸺   made by @medikiss

⸺   please credit if reposting

@radiomogai @rwuffles @idescription (ask to be added / removed)

[battle-for-dyke-island]

alright I’m making a shitty coining post because I don’t have flags but I’m tired of this not existing

intra[x] - not engaging with and/or desiring [x] with anyone outside of one’s own system.

labels that use this would be intrasexual, intraromantic, intraplatonic, intrafamilial, intralove, etc etc. you understand.

I’ve seen many systems - including our own - who are aspec, but have the exception of their own headmates. I thought perhaps having a word for this would be useful.

also, note:

anyone can use these terms. I don’t care about origin, if you’re questioning, if you even use the label “system” - if it resonates, feel free to use it. we used the word system in the definition for simplicity, but anyone who resonates (even singlets? not sure how that’d work but I don’t judge) can use it. hi polyminds!

the and/or was very intentional. you can engage in sex out of sys but still only feel sexual attraction to headmates, and you can feel sexual attraction towards those out of sys but only have sex with headmates, and you can feel sexual attraction & have sex with only your headmates. All of these experiences fall under this umbrella. I want this to be as inclusive as I could reasonably make it.

anyway, I hope you enjoy this. feel free to make flags (I want to see them)(to put on our pronouns.cc) and have a wonderful day!

@syscest you guys seem to have a lot of followers who would be interested in this I think

[cupidgai]

Afamilial🕯🔥/Afamilialguiding candle-identifying as or with afamilial in a way that feels warming and guides your understanding of your other identities

Afamilial❢/Afamilialheavey exclaim- identifies as afamilial in a strong, calming and sincere/interwoven way (both [x]❢ and [x]🕯️🔥 were coined by @wave-pool-coining)

Afamilial🐍/Afamilialsnake- Identifying as or connecting to afamilial(ity) in a way that is solitary, misunderstood and perceived as cold blooded and/or unfeeling from the outside. ([x]🐍 coined by @sillytek)

Afamilial↑/Afamilialarrow- when someone is/connects to afamilial(ity) in a very grandiose, flashy, and self important way. ([x]↑ coined by @narcpolar)

-Afamilial/minusAfamilial-Someone who identifies as afamilial since youth; an afamilial identity that is understood best from a youthful perspective, being afamilial early in life, et cetera. (-identity coined by @coinedbank)

Afamilial⬟/Afamilialpgon- a term for when one's identity as afamilial is affected by one's source. ([x] ⬟ coined by @destoral with the flag template by @skyclowdercoins)

@radiomogai @symblabel-terms

[ilkyute]

Caidéssexual: a caidésspec (link) subtern for those who do not experience sexual attraction at all but instead feel a deep fascination and intrigue towards sexual attraction and everything about it, be it the gestures associated with it, the aesthetics surrounding sexual attraction, or the history behind sexual attraction.

Tagging @radiomogai and @goatgai.

[normystical]

Anaspirial

Anaspirial is the lack of aspirial attraction, which is the desire to be closer to a potential role model or more akin to them due to their perceived experience, talent, and/or wisdom. One who is anaspirial may not have any role models, may be repulsed by the idea of having a mentor figure, may be neutral to the idea, or may voluntarily select a role model without any actual aspirial feelings to push them forward, among other options.

Coined as an alternative to "asocial" of the same definition to avoid confusion with other forms of asociality. It is only a synonym to the one mentor-based definition of asocial; it does not stand in for any other definitions of asocial.

The flag colors are based off of the aspirial attraction flag, particularly the two colors inspired by college graduation gowns.

[transbiograft]

- apothifamilial

| a recreation of this apothifamilial flag - an afamilial flag for individuals who are familial-repulsed.

| image descriptions are in alt text

tagging @radiomogai

[narcpolar]

Rotted Ace

pt: Rotted Ace

a flag for asexuals who used to be allosexual, but their sexual attraction rotted away and is no longer there.

Made as an alternative to caedosexual, but can be used for any reason

taglist: @radiomogai @jesteroftheangel @dragonpride17 @marrow-coining @metacoining @sugaryvexillogy @goatgai @just-aguara @cameracoined , ask to be added or removed

@accessibilitea