AspheLolita - An asphetic/aspheta term for when one desires to become, wear, or connect with the Lolita aesthetic. This identity may be transitioned to by dressing in Lolita-inspired clothes, interacting with others from the subculture, or supporting Lolita creators and businesses. This is NOT done by pretending to be Japanese, sexualizing minors, bleaching one's skin, or anything else harmful or culture-appropriating.
AspheFrystance - An asphetic/aspheta term for when one desires to identify with the blankstance term frystance. This ID may be transitioned to by using similar blankstance terms, learning about frystance beliefs, collecting or making french fry related art, or generally avoiding discourse for mental-health reasons. This is NOT done by harassing others who disagree with frystance beliefs, harmfully lying about one's opinions, or anything else harmful.
AspheSelf-harm / AspheSH - An asphetic/aspheta term for when one desires to self-harm. This identity may be transitioned to by supporting those who self-harm, respectfully interacting with pro-recovery self-harm communities, or educating themself or others on self-harm. This is NOT done by physically hurting themself or others, pretending to experience self-harm, or lying to therapists or doctors about one's actions.
AspheBPD - An asphetic/aspheta term for when one desires to have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). This identity may be transitioned into by learning about BPD, respectfully interacting with persodivergent or Cluster B communities, or supporting or advocating for others with BPD. This is NOT done by lying to doctors for a diagnosis, telling people they mentally have BPD when they don't, attempting to force oneself into showing symptoms, or anything else harmful.
aaaaa first coin on this account!! I hope party enjoys this :)