Hi beautiful, I hope your day is going well😽
So I have some 18+ ateez questions/hard thoughts if you’ll indulge me.
I’ll start with mingi since he’s my bias lol.
Switch but sub leaning mg yes?
Soooo….. my question for you is, what do you think it’ll take to get dom mg? I personally don’t think jealousy, I think he’s too soft for that.😅
I see him getting whiny and feeling heavy hearted if let’s say, his partner was to flirt with others to get a rise out of him. Rather than getting possessive and that let me remind you who you belong to energy. I feel 50/50 about teasing I think teasing him may bring out his dom side but then again it could also bring out his needy subby side…
Of course you could just ask him straight out to take charge but that doesn’t exactly equate to being dominant… I don’t think when he doms he’ll be a hard dom at all, more of a soft dom is what I think. But how would you achieve that side of him because I definitely think he has a more assertive/dom side to him but again how? what will get him to show that side, and what do you think that side would be like.
Moving onto hwa, my bias wrecker.
100% care giver energy.
with that being said do you think he’d like being taken care of and prioritized the way he would do his partner. In a non s and s context.
In a more s context do you think he’d allow himself to just enjoy whatever his partner has in store for him without reciprocating at all?
I personally don’t think so, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on it. I personally think he’d get the most pleasure from pleasing his partner in any way more than anything.
Of course I don’t think he’d hate being taken care of, I just think he’d rather be the one taking care of his partner than the other way around in general..
(Only two members because I don’t want to overwhelm you with a super long ask..)
Oooh okay so I'm on the train and I have pushed this aside so I can finally give this ask the detail and validation it deserves because these make AMAZING points and insight!
Disclaimer: These are just my thoughts, don't take it too seriously.
Why is Mingi your bias? I love learning about why ppl bias certain members and their reasoning behind it.
In my mind, Mingi is a switch with a sub leaning and I honestly do feel him getting jealous and/or possessive would flip that switch into dom!mingi territory.
The thing about Mingi though is he's a smart man and he'll figure out probably whether you're flirting with others to get a rile out of him and pls the man is a Leo sun-
So I think the chances of him flirting with another girl out of spite is more likely because the man is needy but he can also be BRATTY too.
I honestly think he has more brat tendencies in him than Wooyoung but he just hides it better.
However- I will also say that another way for him to flip into dom!mingi is maybe after a fight where he knows you're upset OR if you're feeling insecure about an aspect of the relationship.
He's the ultimate care-giver/ pleasure switch so omg you don't think he loves you enough? What has he not been doing right??
And so I feel this would push him into a headspace of seeking control as a means to 'prove himself' by being dominant and worshipping you...but still in a needy, soft-hearted way.
'My baby feels good yeah? I know you do but I want to hear you say it, it makes me so hard when I hear you hear you say it'
Ooh okay so Hwa is definitely living with that care-giver complex but he definitely needs some reciprocation and I can attest to this because I'm like an Aries stellium like him.
He's an Aries Mars and what makes them harder than a brick is FEELING DESIRED!!! They need to know you want this as bad as they do!!
It's a big reason why he becomes a different person on stage because when he's performing and he can feel the audience consumed by his presence-
Oh honey it unlocks a desire in him that's almost primal.
It's why a lot of ppl are like 'why is Seonghwa still performing after his grandfather has passed?'
And it's because the adrenaline/testosterone/dopamine effect he has whilst performing is helping him grieve and process those feelings- us Aries work well under pressure for a reason.
So yes while I feel he still prefers to give rather than receive, he has to feel like your desire and needs are matching his in the moment.
So, I do feel in moments of vulnerability that he would let you take care of him and can just lay back and just receive- he would probably have to reciprocate like a day later or so.
But sex is an important love language for him so he'd use anything as an excuse to be intimate.
You could buy him a lego set he's been anxiously anticipating for and he would say thank you by wanting to rock your world-
He's an Aries Mars after all so he prefers quickies and short sessions to an endless round of love-making.
So in summary, Seonghwa is more of an attention-whore than most people expect.
'Did you see Mommy up on stage my precious, little star mmmh?? How wet did I make you??? Is your cunt all needy because of me?'
Feel free to send in more thoughts about the other members, it'll just take awhile for me to respond haha