Future Spouse Observation
A quick note for you guys. You can really tell what someone is into if you look at the planets conjunct or simply aspecting darakaraka. Like if Venus is your darakaraka, then you love a spouse who has fine taste, dresses well and looks extremely good. And if it is conjunct Sun, then yep, you need a highly confident person, like a godly person. With conjunction it is very intense because it is not something you like but something you need in a partner.
I have found conjunctions are the strongest with this to see likeness. Oppositions will be something you hate about them but cannot help but also admire that trait. Like if Saturn is opposite Venus, then you love how they feel so secure and dependable and mature, but also hate the fact that they are too strict or aloof with you. With sextiles and trines, it would be complimenting traits that just makes them very desirable to your soul. And squares will be you simply hate those things about them. So it is a very basic, foolproof, sure and efficient way to recognize your future spouse as well. Also applicable to western astrology just take 7th lord in that case and also d9 chart. For Vedic I recommend to focus on darakarka for this method rather than 7th lord for both d1 and d9 charts.
Sun
Highly confident, authoritative, radiant, natural leader, proud, deeply focused on self expression and vitality. They have a main character energy. They are likely very ambitious, protective, and want to be admired.
Moon
Nurturing, deeply emotional, intuitive, empathetic, adaptable, heavily tied to family, home, or comfort. They are a caretaker. They wear their heart on their sleeve, tune into your emotional needs instinctively, and prioritize emotional security and coziness.
Mercury
Highly intellectual, communicative, witty, youthful, curious, restless, and analytical. They are a talker and a thinker. You will have endless conversations, lots of banter, and they likely have a very playful, almost mischievous sense of humor. They need mental stimulation.
Venus
Beautiful, diplomatic, artistic, romantic, pleasure seeking, and focused on aesthetics. They have fine taste, prioritize harmony, dress well, and know how to enjoy the finer things in life. They are natural charmers and peacemakers.
Mars
Energetic, athletic, passionate, assertive, protective, impulsive, and sometimes aggressive or highly competitive. They are a doer. They have a lot of physical energy, are likely very direct with their desires, and fiercely protect what is theirs. They bring heat and action to the relationship.
Jupiter
Wise, optimistic, philosophical, generous, expansive, spiritual, and sometimes dogmatic or preachy. They are the eternal student or teacher. They likely love traveling, learning, and discussing big picture concepts. They bring luck, abundance, and a very positive, everything will work out attitude.
Saturn
Mature, disciplined, secure, hardworking, traditional, serious, dependable, but can be aloof or overly strict. As you mentioned, they are the rock. They offer unparalleled stability, loyalty, and practical support, though they might struggle to be spontaneously affectionate or emotionally raw.
Rahu (North Node)
Unconventional, ambitious, obsessive, rule breaking, glamorous, deeply attached to material success or worldly experiences. They might be from a completely different cultural background or foreign land. They are likely magnetic, intense, and highly driven to achieve, sometimes breaking societal norms to get what they want. They bring an element of unpredictability and excitement.
Ketu (South Node)
Spiritual, detached, highly intuitive, mystical, private, introspective, and unbothered by material success. They are an old soul. They might be incredibly hard to read, preferring solitude or spiritual pursuits over climbing the corporate ladder or socializing. They offer a deep, almost psychic connection, but can also suddenly isolate themselves or seem entirely detached from the physical world.
