#autoromantic

[this-is-automisia]

automisia is staring at yourself in the mirror and feeling better about ourselves because we don't have to be liked by everyone as long as we have ourselves. Like hear me out?

-🥩🦊 anon

I think this is more like autospec joy from you!

I mean, if people are being rude about you being autospec, that is automisia.

[divinegoddess428]

This was the best mash up for the two flags and I gotta say the purple galaxy really ties it all together!~☆

[divinegoddess428]

I feel safest being self-gay on here than anywhere else.

[this-is-automisia]

automisia is, doing a hear me out kinda thing with my friends, bringing up how i would fuck a clone of myself/somebody that looked like me… and one of them was like, “so would you fuck your brother?”

😭 NOT WHAT I SAID

This is automisia.

I hate when people say this because like, no, not how it works

[this-is-automisia]

Automisia and deitykin alterhumisia(/anti-religion?) is the constant demonization of self-pride. Whenever people are proud of their appearance, their work, or especially who they are, other people are quick to tear them down, calling them shit like egotistical, selfish, and narcissistic (which is also ableist) even if they've done nothing wrong and are just sharing their joy. Meanwhile, people who self-deprecate are praised for their humility (which is harmful to them too). This culture has made me deeply ashamed of not only my attraction to myself, but even worse, my worship of my divine aspect. These are not only parts of who I am, but ways I cope with my mind telling me I'm an evil person. To be learning to love myself through romantic, sexual, and religious love, only to hear constantly that loving yourself in these ways is evil, makes me have to start all over again repeatedly. I just wish people share in others' joy rather than being assholes whenever they see someone uplifting themself and being who they are instead of tearing themself down for validation.

I'd call this culture misogynist and queermisic too as women and queer people are the most common victims of this I've seen.

This is automisia, alterhumisia, ableism - also has ties to misogyny and queermisia

woah, what a list, but all very true!

[this-is-automisia]

(first time sending an ask to a blog like this so forgive me if im doing this wrong lmao)

so i see autospec and similar terk coining stuff kinda frequently, mainly on pinterest , and theres always one comment on them, "that's actually narcissism" or something similar

you can see it here actually its the top/preview comment

it not only to me seems automisic or whatever the right word would be it also seems anti npd or at least really stereotyping npd which is kinda in itself anti npd. it just pisses me off. and its soooooo common too

Yep, this is automisia and npd ableism!

[trashbins-stuff]

I lvoe my husvandwife (myself #autospec)

[needygodoverdose]

Imagine trying 2 insult some1 by saying " fuck urself " & it turns out you were talking 2 an autosexual