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TOXIC PEOPLE POISON OUR SOULS
We all deserve love and crave intimacy. It’s human nature to want to connect and share in all the laughter and love that comes with life. Those of us who have suffered through traumatic experiences tend to either become self reflective and compassionate or totally narcissistic and toxic. Since the cosmos is one big display of vibrations we are putting out the same frequencies regardless of how different the groups may seem. Each pole- or extreme- is the same even though the vary by degree.
Yes, as unfortunate as it seems, those of us who have chosen compassion are actually targets for the narcissist. It’s because we’ve been through the trauma that we overlook the red flags. It’s because we don’t want to abandon others who are exhibiting behaviors we did at our worst that we try and save them. Logic would dictate that if the worst of us can change- myself being a convicted drug dealing gang banger who pistol whipped his enemies- then anyone can grow into something beautiful.
But we’re forgetting something here. People have to want to change. They have to want to be better humans. They have to be willing to admit their flaws and uproot them. Therapy, prayer, meditation, these are the building blocks of a wounded healer in training. We forget that growth tends to be born in struggle and not everyone feels genuine remorse. Not everyone sees a need for change. Some people aren’t ready to stare down their flaws and fight their own personal demons. Sometimes we forget we aren’t responsible for other people’s growth.
If you’re dealing with a toxic person who is draining the joy from your life and are exhausting yourself trying to change them just stop. Understand your part, being an agent of change means you’re changing who you are and leading by example. Others are responsible for themselves. No matter how much it hurts, no matter how obligated you feel you have to do what’s best for you.
Just remember, those of us who have made genuine changes can pinpoint something we lost- something we found too much- that forced us to make a change. Maybe your walking away from a toxic person will be the catalyst that leads to that change in them. Maybe not. Either way you will be free from the poison being dripped into your soul and will be able to breathe again.
And that, Ladies and Gentlemen, creates the space for us to continue our growth. So be the change you want to see but stop pretending you can change others. That’s their job.
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