#bad babysitter

[marsinbrain]

Anyways too lazy to finish dis so here

[official-pietro-maximoff]

*holds stab wound*

Whoever is meant to be babysitting me at the moment is doing a TERRIBLE job!

You better hope my wife doesn’t find out.

@totally-not-kate-bishop

@clintbarton-thearrowguy

@wandabug

[thequestioning-maiden]

About being critical: Jaken is not a father to Rin

I've seen especially SessRin shippers saying Jaken is a father to Rin. WTF? Seriously, is that a father figure? A father is someone who complained about you all the time,made you feel that you were a hindrance, that you were not important? If you said you were hungry he cared little and told you to shut up.? Did he take care of you because his BOSS made him do it and also regretted having to watch over you? Furthermore, he would send you to sleep telling you that you would live little compared to him and your loved ones and that no one would care? Because that's what Jaken literally does 99% of the show with Rin. Jaken is one of the most toxic characters in the series especially for Rin. At best I could call him a babysitter and a bad one because under his care she is kidnapped and put in danger many times.

And by the way, saying Jaken is her father doesn't make Sesshomaru less of a father figure and automatically turns him into "future husband"

[grapevine-mango-peaches-and-lime]

[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

Hi! I have a babysitter (that’s mostly for my little brother) and she is very christian. She plays christian music in the car, plays scriptures and christian lectures, and talks about god and religion constantly. I have no problem with this, I respect others opinions even if I disagree strongly with them. I don’t want it be disrespectful or lose her friendship but I would like her to stop trying to push her religion on me. I don’t know how to bring it up or ask her to stop. Help?

What a strange person. When a babysitter comes over, they’re supposed to put on movies and TV shows and music that the kids would enjoy, to keep them entertained. It’s never about the babysitter themselves. They’re only there because a responsible human needs to be present. How selfish to make fun time for the kids all about her superstitions.

You might start with simply suggesting you watch or listen to something else, or keep changing the subject and talking about something more your speed.

If that doesn’t work, you might need to be more direct and forceful. If she’s actually your friend, she will understand and agree. You are not unreasonable for expecting to be able to have your own beliefs, and not have hers rammed down your throat. People are free to block or ignore my posts - I don’t come into their houses while they’re eating dinner and point out all the problems in the bible or with their illogical thought process.

If she refuses, I would take it up with your parents (or whoever is in charge of hiring/paying her). It’s no more acceptable for her to be proselytizing to you than if you were to go to her 3 year old brother and tell him that there’s no Santa (or god). But also, she’s not actually doing her job. If you’re uncomfortable about being direct with her first, then maybe just go straight to your parents.

If the friendship ends, it’s because she ended it, because she prioritized preaching over her friendship with you, not because you ended it. No different or more rational than ending your friendship because you don’t want to watch another movie where Tom Cruise spends the whole thing running around with his weird running style, when she does. And it probably indicates she was not really your friend in the first place.

She’s out of bounds. And can more than likely be easily replaced.

[keyofmesharp]

“well, if you don’t like it, i can leave and then you’ll be alone. believe me, thats what the creepy monsters want…”

god forbid i remember even a word of this song because it becomes my whole personality for the next 24 hours