been in 30+ for a while, having an ok time, and i feel like wrt the mod team, its repeat offenders who get into arguments with server members. who knows what's going in the mod channels (would love to be a fly in that room tbqh) but i wonder if some of them are just as done w the drama as everyone else. i've gone to quieter mods w my problems and they've been very kind and friendly. idk if their just complacent or if their getting steamrolled by the more abrasive personalities but i think the transparency rule is funny because it sooo reads like some of them being fed up by the rest's ban happy bullshit. i'll see if it makes a difference
Truthfully, I there's some literal discord (pun) between the discord moderators, because they frequently don't seem on the same page, and if you watch, there are some who never seem to interact -- you'll never see them both in the same conversation. On the other hand, there are a few who are clearly thick as thieves.
Which, given that we're all human, isn't surprising.
That said, I've seen at least one of those "quieter mods" be nice and friendly with a member, only to later be a complete shithead, so I treat them all like rattlesnakes: no matter how they're behaving now, there's always the potential for them to land a poisonous bite later.