There's nothing wrong, absolutely nothing, with creating terminology that separates a group affected by a certain axis of oppression from those who are either unaffected by it or enactors but that word is transmysogny. Not -exempt or -affected, just transmysogny. Not only has this not been how oppression has been labeled ever, because just being said identity is clear enough that you would affected by that axis and not only does this lump oppressed people with oppressors...
But it's becoming clearer and clearer by the day that you don't want to acknowledge any other axises of oppression, especially the ones where you would be the oppressor, than the one you are victims of. Y'all don't talk about racism or ableism or classism or perisexism unless it also intersects with transmysogny. " Why am I not allowed to center trans women in my activism? 😠" You are allowed to but you never branch out. Centering means primary concern, they are your ONLY concern and specifically to the detriment of multiple other oppressed groups around you by you either ignoring their oppression, claiming it's less than yours on no evidence or not calling out people who believe the same shit you do when they are otherwise bigoted. That's cult shit. That's supremacist shit.
I don't need to clarify that Im affected by anti-indigenous racism because just being indigenous is obviously the only qualification and I don't need to clarify that I'm exempt from anti-black racism because just not being black is obviously the only exclusion. Same as someone, white or non-indigenous poc, doesn't need to clarify they are exempt from anti-indigenous racism because just not being indigenous is obviously the only exclusion and so on. It's obvious who experiences transmysogny, we don't need to label ourselves as affected or exempt from it.
It should also be mentioned that though obviously anyone is capable of anti-indigenous racism, and I've experienced it from other poc, I can very obviously acknowledge that non-indigenous poc are significantly less likely to enact anti-indigenous racism, even though they and white people are in the same non-indigenous category. Transfeminits claim all groups, trans or cis, are both equally capable and equal enactors of transmysogny and that's just not fucking true. The issue with tma/tme users is that not only are they not using it to go after the biggest causers of transmysogny (CISGENDER MEN) but claim there's a through-line of privilege that cis men, cis women and trans men all experience and that's simply horse shit.
Can we be real and acknowledge the only reason trans radfems/ Transfeminists are treating trans men this way is because they are an acceptable target that doesn't have the social power to bite back? (which would kill the claim that trans men have equal social power to cis men btw) If they actually wanted to go after the people who are causing trans women to go back in the closet, who are the ones beating, raping and murdering trans women, they would be on cis men's fucking asses. Trans men and Cis women are not making these statistics, like not even remotely close, to the damage cis men are causing the transfem community yet the only time they ever bring them up is in forcefem fantasies. Trans men and Cis women, when it comes to the big scary murder statistics transfems face, make up less than 1% of that statistic. Trans men and Cis women simply aren't hurting trans women physically and the physical harm that's constantly being brought up is only being labeled as being caused by "TMES", a grouping that yes, contains cis men that are causing 99.9% of the violence but also including 2 oppressed groups, cis women and trans men, who are causing >.1% of said violence. You need to clarify whose causing the violence, neither cis women nor trans men are abusing trans women to any percentage even in the same solar system as cis men. You are being disingenuous claiming otherwise.
If you want to stop the transmysogny, why aren't you going after cis men? Are you scared? You certainly aren't scared of trans men, so it's not the fear of men you claim to feel, so why aren't you going after them? Why do I never hear a fucking peep out of you about cis men?? Trans men and Cis women have been going after cis men on every forum for decades, why aren't you?
Or, are you finally ready to admit this isn't about transmysogny anymore and just simply acceptable targets?
