#be mindful

[per11winkle]

sometimes i blame you sometimes i dont im taking two steps back to go forward

the blood from marius' wrist has one line per fledgling and grandfledgeling

also I only add those tags bc I don't like how yall speak of armandmarius on here. I don't ship them. Titik. this is an exploration of their dynamic don't be gross in my tags

[canine-entertainment]

Why does every [hyperbole] canine alterhuman have mutt in their username now?!? Bro, mutt is a slur, and one that would be used against somepup like me! (⁠ ⁠･ัω⁠･ั⁠)

I'm not particularly offended by it, but the lack of knowledge on this really turns me off from tryna talk to y'all. Someone could be really offended by it.

Be mindful! Even if you aren't using it as a slur, that doesn't mean it isn't one.

Edit: THE FIRST DEFINITION DOESN'T ERASE THE SECOND! IT'S A SLUR NO MATTER THE CONTEXT OR INTENT!!

[socialbutterfly19]

When it’s quiet… put music on and dance

[squishy-lombax]

**SPOILERS FOR EPISODE 9**

Rant regarding Jax and how the community views him and mental illness as a whole...

I think it's okay to "hate the sin, love the sinner," as they say.

Jax did a lot of inexcusable things, but nothing that was deserving of suicide. Which, even he did not agree with, because he felt undeserving of love because of what he did/has done. Despite knowing his wrongdoings, he was unable to get himself out of the vicious cycle. The "abused to abuser" pipeline is very real and not uncommon. Especially when the inital abuse comes from a parent.

That's not to say people abused by parents are destined to become abusers. Ragatha is a great example of this. Although she also deals with her traumatic history in destructive ways. She is just better at internalizing it instead of lashing out. (Side bar: I love the parallels between Jax and Ragatha! I could go on a whole other analysis regarding that!)

Parent abuse is one of the most traumatic things a person can go through, and it will affect you through the entirety of your life. Whether you even realize it or not. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Jax in the real world is a great example that he wasn't beyond redeeming and just needed a stable environment to get on his feet. Unfortunately, the circus was not the place for stability. To make matters worse, it's canon(?) that Jax came to the circus as a minor. Which none of the other cast, that we know of, did. Image never being able to experience the real world after the ripe age of 16. Jax, in the circus, potentially never had a job, a relationship, nor even finished high school. All these things are very important for social development. Taking into account that he doesn't even know what a healthy relationship is does not help.

There's a lot to unpack for him as a character, and I think it's totally okay to dislike him. Especially if you have experienced abuse from someone similar to him. However, please be mindful that, at least his back story, is going to be very familiar to some people. To the point where many may relate to him. At least on a surface level. Someone yelled, "I'm glad he killed himself!" In my theater after he already did so. I didn't expect it to affect me as much as it ended up doing so. Nevertheless, it really did punch me in the gut. Mental illness is not pretty and not to be romanticized. I personally feel like TADC did a great job showing off the uglier sides of mental health in a decently realistic way. Again, it's okay to dislike a character. However, yelling something in support of suicide in a room filled with *strangers,* all of whom we can assume probably sufferes from some form of mental illness... it's not only disgusting to do that, but just downright shameful. (They also yelled other things as well, but I feel this is the most important thing of note)

I hope that if the person who did so is reading this, just know you retriggered some suicidal tendencies that I have not had in a long time. Let's just be thankful my husband was there for me and helped talk me through it.

Jax wasn't a good person, but please don't ever wish suicide onto a person. Especially in front of a bunch of people you don't fucking know.

[salemrph]

Taking a step back & Raising Hate in LaDS

I had a long conversation a few days ago with someone, who made me realize that I need to step back from the game.

Love and Deepspace has been my obsession for the past months, almost a year. I have a deeply understanding of the lore, characterization of Sylus, I write, post, reblog, engage with people online, fantasies, daydream.... My brain has been for while 24/7 Love and Deepspace.

So I'm going to be pure honest here, bc maybe this helps you too to take a step back and reconnect with reality.

Having a hobby and little hyperfixation isn't wrong. But like every stuff, the measure of this behavior needs to stay healthy. In the same way, you can't exercise until you body fails, stop eating because you want to lose wait or smoke a whole box of cigarettes, games shouldn't consume your whole free time.

If the game is starting to affect your sleeping schedule, producing you anxiety bc of the FOMO, is interfering with your capacity of concentrating in other important things in your life: relationship, work, studies or whatever... YOU NEED TO STOP.

Delete the app for a few days and check in with yourself:

Can I be one day without playing?

Can I stop spending money on the game?

Do I feel distressed if I can't log in?

Ask you friends/family how are they perceiving your behavior.

Hate and psychotic behavior is raising in this community and I think it has deep connection about the unhealthy attachment to the game, along with insecurities and other issues.

I don't want to lose my freedom and ability of enjoying more stuff in my life because of Love and Deepspace. I want to enjoy this for a long time, and this means to take a step back.

Sylus said it: You're always be free to do whatever you want when you're with me.

So I take it as reminder of going out and forget about him for a few days.

The people who has started to attack each other, to spread hate, bully content creators like Lexytv are the worst player. You don't own any character, infact the not even real. Again THEY ARE PIXEL. You're not better for loving Sylus or Caleb harder then other do. So again: when was the last time you had a break of the game?

Yes, you can love them. Yes, you can be super excited. Yes, you can share your joy with others...

But NO you can't bully people. NO you can't just attack people bc they don't have the same opinion like you. NO you can't be racist, homophobic or just a disgusting person because internet give you the freedom to do it.

This is not a competition of who is crazier then the other. If you don't have any good thing to say, shut up!

Okay, sooooo...

For me taking a step back means to slow down, to take the game easy. To enjoy everyday life and come back to the game, to this blog. Of course, I will keep writing but one a slower pace then usually. Like I said, I want to enjoy this and that's mean to have healthy relationships with it.

Hope this inspires you to slow down, sent this to someone you know who could take break.

We're playing for fun.

[beccawise7]

Tuesday Thoughts. 💜🖤

[14th-lulullaby]

what’s your fav fic?

Long post Bcs I love so many ficS 😭😭😭

Pink Noise by PreseaMoon

idolatry by pellucid (demios)

a love that destroys cities by jellyjully

Six Feet Over by @caramelsuguru

Flames Blossom,Moonlight Shimmers by sea_21

illuminate my pores and you tear me apart by pennydaniels

countless versions of me by pennydaniels

i'm gonna make you come tonight, over to my house (and then i'm gonna make you cum) by shawsuju

in my imagination, you're mine (I found this space for you and I) and a piece of the pack, a part of the main (entirely of me) by @uandaao3

I'm not biased By SpicyRoll (SpicyR0ll)

Split by @ohsocyanide

Infinite Void by @neyasochi

frostbitten by @neyasochi

coanda effect by @bunnieshoneys

Over the Threshold by @fushiglow

February by @fushiglow

The Seconds Before by cowboyneils

love games by Aamalysstuff