ppl asking u how u feel abt something related to urself and then immediately dogpiling on top of your own feelings by immediately telling u abt how their own experiences with said thing is horrible and you shouldn’t feel bad
like i swear to fucking god,,, asking me abt relationship/boy advice that’s so nuanced and specific and like yes obviously i can try to help but i don’t KNOW all of the intricacies of a relationship
and then when i say oh idk i’ve never been in that situation i’m sorry
suddenly it’s like oh no it’s okay you don’t WANT to have to deal with this blah blah blah
and im like yea well i mean i would at least like to experience it… yk… bc it’s like a severely formative thing and i would like to be liked bc i’ve never had that bc i just feel like an awkward behind loser like idk man how is it so easy and so prevalent for everyone else?? what am i doing wrong?? is it smth i can change?
“well i’ve never had that either” okay??? bitch?? you were just telling me about your latest situationship…. and you had three guys ask you out at the bar like two days ago be SO fucking for real
like obv i want something that’s not that but bro please please please you are not understanding that there is a difference between us when I say “i’ve never had that” and when you say “oh i’ve never had that” GIRL YOURE DOING IT BY CHOICE ! IT IS NOT EVEN COMPARABLE !