The difference between you and and someone else who made the same mistake is the ability to learn from your failures and move on. . Failures are opportunities to learn and do things differently. Advice from an 80 year old man : 1.Don't expect life to be fair, you can never be defeated if you are upright. 2. Be brave. Even if you are not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. 3. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. 4. Never deprive someone of Hope. 5. Be a good loser. 6. Be a good winner. 7. Choose your life's mate carefully. 8. Be romantic 9. Don't allow phone call to interrupt important moments. It is there for our convenience, not the caller's. 10. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret. 11. Keep it simple 12. Don't burn bridges, you will be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river. 13. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you will regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did. 14. Be optimistic. 15. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you. 16. Take charge of your attitude. 17. Once in a while, take the scenic route. 18. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice. 19. Show respect for everyone who works for a living regardless how trivial their jobs may be. 20. Be kind to yourself and those around you. 21. Learn to to count your blessings. . . May this week be filled with happiness and God's blessings for all of us. #rayofhopeempowermentfoundation #lendahandtouchalife #begenerous #berayofhope #women #rohef #life #learn #optimistic #character #rohefngo #rolemodel #abuja #nigeria #africa #help #hope #rohefbacktoschoolandscholarships #respect #honest #loveyourself #communitydevelopment #advice #grattitude #winning #lifequotes #blessings #roheftouchinglives #pressforprogress2019 #faith https://www.instagram.com/p/BzFYHFoFvfB/?igshid=18mc1fhxmuwxu