i just remembered that i didn't really come out to my friends but instead they pulled me out of the closet because i didn't even knew i was a lesbian and it went somewhat like this
friend 1: how do u guys imagine your weddings?
friends 2 and 3: idk probably something fancy and nice with all of u guys there
friend 4: just family and friends, probably something small
me: honestly i never really thought about it. i don't see the point of getting married and being with a guy my whole life. honestly i'd much rather marry a girl. girls are so cute and if i was a man i'd totally want a wife, idk why men always complain about having a wife it seems nice to call someone your wife. imagine getting home and be yeah i love my wife. or go everywhere and proudly say "hey, this is my wife isn't she beautiful?". girls are awesome and i wish i could marry one. if one asked me to kiss them right there and then i would, no questions asked. but yeah i still have to marry a man:/
friends: *silent and wide eyed, staring at me weirdly*
them: yeah, no, are u sure ur straight? none of us has ever thought about that
me: *shocked as the realization of what it means hit me* wait you mean to tell me you guys never thought about marrying a girl? holding hands with a girl, kissing one? hold on does this means i'm gay? WHY DIDNT YOU GUYS TOLD ME!?*continues to have a life crisis and remembers every single interaction i've ever had with girls*
them: we guess so, if that's how u feel then yeah, just know that we love you and support you no matter what and how were we supposed to tell you when you didnt even knew until now!?
me: yeah thank you guys i just cant believe it never occured to me that i could actually be attracted to, date and eventually marry a girl
1 year after i came out and now more than half of my friend group are gay. after they came out they told me it takes only one for the rest to feel safe and accepted.