#bfrb stuff

[vampirequeeer]

yo if ur ace or have trich, derma, or other bfrbs, and esp if you blog abt it, interact w this post! i need to find more people like me on this site

i know yallre out there somewhere and i’m gonna find you and understand and share your experiences and feelings !!!

[vampirequeeer]

when i went to the optometrist a week ago i didn’t understand how back to normal my eyelashes are now until the people didn’t say anything abt them or inform me about the effects of not having eyelashes

[vampirequeeer]

breaking news! hair soft an good to touch n hold

[vampirequeeer]

one day i will look in my apartment’s bathroom mirror and there will be no tiny stray hairs at the top of my head or spots on my skin that are red from picking or empty patches in my lashes and i cannot wait until that day comes

[vampirequeeer]

yall my eyelashes are starting to curl up at the corners again and you have no idea how good that is

[vampirequeeer]

4-3-18 to 1-8-19 id call that a glo up

[vampirequeeer]

hey folks w bfrbs / adhd / stuff that makes you constantly fidget with whatever’s in your hands what are some good like products to fidget with (that are also ideally near indestructible)

[vampirequeeer]

sorry to be an ignorant asshole but what's a trich

its totally cool! its not at all well known so dont feel bad about not knowing about it! 

trich, or trichotillomania, is a bfrb (body focused repetitive behavior) that essentially translates people compulsively pulling out hair (from their head, eyebrows, eyelashes–anywhere really) for any number of reasons, but for me its usually either stress, boredom, free hands, or a combination of all 3. a lot of times it gets lumped in with other things as just a “bad habit” or something easily controllable, but its not either of those and can be really really awful and humiliating when it gets particularly bad cause it takes a really long time to physically recover from. 

if you wanna know more about it check out my ‘#bfrb stuff’ tag and there’ll be more thorough and coherent explanations n stuff in there!