#bi-gray

[iriscasefiles]

I’ve recently been re-listening to TSCOSI and I love it so much! Out of curiosity, do you have any idea of the production schedule for season 2? Also, is there a Patreon or other funding site to help support the show? :)

Hi there! So glad you enjoy the show!

I’m still writing the scripts for Season Two, and from there, my goal is to get everything recorded before it’s all edited, in order to increase the likelihood of sticking to an every-other-week release schedule. 

And we do have a Patreon; it’s right here! Thanks so much for asking!

[nd43kinks]

bi-gray replied to your post “i might be too busy this weekend to draw anything but i want you all...”

Omg PLEASE YES

I’M DEFINITELY GONNA MAKE THE CONTENT I JUST HAVE TO FIND THE TIME!!!

[nekosd43]

bi-gray replied to your photoset “I’ve been thinking about offering commissions for custom ttrpg...”

Whoa, cool! I guess I would ask you how long it takes to design and make one and figure out a fair wage off of that, accounting for any costs you might incur.  It’s a niche product that I think people would pay a decent amount for.

My major concern is it’s too niche for how much time it takes?  The Mewmin one I did to time myself and it took about six hours.  Even at minimum wage that’s like 80$ a page?!?  I’m not sure if it’s “worth” that, you know?  They look awesome and everything, but will someone really pay upwards of 80 for a character sheet?

[adventures-in-asexuality]

bi-gray replied to your post “a dumb body thing: I am having trouble cracking my knees recently...”

I did not know that knees were a crackable joint?

any joint is a crackable joint if you try hard and believe in yourself have a joint disorder!

(well, not quite any: ironically, I can’t crack my knuckles. But most major joints, yeah!)

batbetbitbotbut replied to your post “a dumb body thing: I am having trouble cracking my knees recently...”

this is ridiculous and you have my sympathy but also this is kind of hilarious in how wrong everything goes

no, I quite agree, it is very funny in its utter ridiculousness!

[aceadmiral]

bi-gray replied to your post “Liminal Identity, Forbearance and Hope”

Identity definitions and "borders" are difficult! I still sometimes get a confused, surreal feeling about being an out trans person. I'm glad you were able to access the care you needed, and I hope that you will find whatever community support you may want in the future!

Thank you! The lines around identities are really so very personal and subjective, I found it hard to even articulate my dilemma to people in a way they’d understand. And then add the imposter syndrome on top... well, I think it’s hard for all of us.

cayra replied to your post “Liminal Identity, Forbearance and Hope”

Thank you so much for putting this into words. A lot of it rings very true with my own experience, especially the 'trans enough' and negative identity parts...                    

Thank you for reading! I’m glad it resonates with you; I was kind of wondering once I’d finished it if I was being at all intelligible....

[invernom]

Ehehehe I do indeed! ;3 It's a good aesthetic.

[diamorics]

Re: looking at pics of androgynous people and feeling dysphoric: I highly recommend curating your dash to include nb people of varied presentations, body types, etc! I really appreciate selfie blogs like nonbinarynotandrogynous and chubbytubbytrans for that purpose:)

Thank you so, so much for this ask, I just followed both blogs!!!! ;v;

Posting publicly so other people can see the blog recommendations too!

My selfies show my face not very chubby but my body certainly isn’t skinny at all so the second blog means something to me too ((I have no idea why my face is mostly unaffected by my chub???))

Oh and we’re mutuals, this blog ins’t my main and I’ll go send an ask to say my main’s url!!!! I’m not very comfortable sharing it directly on here…

Brief edit: I don’t use my main, the hesitancy isn’t because I have things to hide, it’s for mental illness reasons

[riptidepublishing]

Hi! I was wondering if you could tell me whether any of your current or forthcoming publications include a character who is both trans or genderqueer AND asexual? I've read a few books from you that include a trans character and an ace character, but so far it's proven difficult to track down works with characters at the intersection of those two identities.

Yes! Here’s the intersection of those two tags on our website search results, although in all but one of them, one character is ace and the other character is trans. HOWEVER. Check out Assassins: Nemesis by Erica Cameron. In the words of the MC, "I’m .... intersex because of partial androgen insensitivity syndrome, expressively genderfluid but mentally agender, and panromantic graysexual."