#big stims

[dreamdropdollop]

normalize big stims. art by Strawberry

[autisticdreamdrop]

vocal stims are valid!

verbal stims are valid!

big stims are valid!

loud stims are valid!

[kamehameyeehaw]

Hi everyone!!!

It’s been a while since I’ve posted. I hope everyone is doing well. It’s been a hot minute since I let myself stim in a big way. Aside from really gentle rocking in my room while watching tv or playing video games, some small hand movements, and stereotypy, I haven’t really let myself stim and I’m not sure why. So I started wagging my head around and wishing my arms and oh my gosh I forgot how absolutely magical it feels. It just feels so much better. I feel so much better. I think part of the reason why I stopped was because for 21 years I’ve been suppressing my urges to stim big so much out of fear of being ridiculed/made fun of that it became second nature to just not do it without intentionally thinking about doing it. But oh my gosh you guys stimming feels SO GOOD like I am vibrating just thinking about it! So if you’re reading this, do a big stim for me! Jump up and down, waggle your arms or head or whatever, BIG STIMS YOU GUYS!!! Just as long as they’re safe! Happy stimming, my friends!!!!

[dreamdropdollop]

vocal stims are NOT gross.

verbal stims are NOT annoying.

big stims are NOT aggressive.

loud stims are NOT embarrassing.

there's nothing wrong with stimming. nothing wrong with vocal or verbal stims. there's nothing wrong with big or loud stims.

you stim a little? that's cool.

you stim sometimes? that's cool.

you stim often? that's cool.

you stim constantly? that's cool too!!

as a level 2, mid to high support needs autistic system, we are still working on self injurious stimming for most alters in our system. if you are not hurting others our yourself, let yourself stim. do it alone if you got to, but there's NOTHING wrong with stimming in front of people. stimming is natural for many neurodivergent folks out there.

now at first we admit, stimming in public is scary. we don't go outside much, but when we delt with our regession, and couldn't mask constantly, we had our rehabilitation specialists that we felt safe around was there. we now stim pretty much freely in public, if we are feeling fearful of people looking, we will try to use fidget/stim toys. some alters will stim loud and big with fidgets too haha. some alters quite stim. some alters big stim.

regardless of how you stim you should be allowed to stim freely. forget what others think. we has the same issue with us bringing plushies with us in public. if it helps you, it doesn't matter what people think. we know on some level unmasking is hard, but you shouldn't feel ashamed to be youself.

anyways the point is as long as you are not hurting youself of others, you can stim as much as you like ♡ - The Dreamdrop System

art credit - Kateryna Davydenko

[autisticdreamdrop]

vocal stims are NOT gross.

verbal stims are NOT annoying.

big stims are NOT aggressive.

loud stims are NOT embarrassing.

we have tics. we vocal stim. we verbal stim. we have big stims. we have loud stims. we we're shamed for it by our mother. as we went through regession, the need to stim increased. we stim constantly.

there's nothing wrong with stimming. nothing wrong with vocal or vebral stims. there's nothing wrong with big or loud stims.

you stim a little? that's cool.

you stim sometimes? that's cool.

you stim often? that's cool.

you stim constantly? that's cool too!!

as a level 2, mid to high support needs autistic system, we are still working on self injurious stimming for most alters in our system. if you are not hurting others our yourself, let yourself stim. do it alone if you got to, but there's NOTHING wrong with stimming in front of people. stimming is natural for many neurodivergent folks out there.

now at first we admit, stimming in public is scary. we don't go outside much, but when we delt with our regession, and couldn't mask constantly, we had our rehabilitation specialists that we felt safe around was there. we now stim pretty much freely in public, if we are feeling fearful of people looking, we will try to use fidget/stim toys. some alters will stim loud and big with fidgets too haha. some alters quite stim. some alters big stim.

regardless of how you stim you should be allowed to stim freely. forget what others think. we has the same issue with us bringing plushies with us in public. if it helps you, it doesn't matter what people think. we know on some level unmasking is hard, but you shouldn't feel ashamed to be youself.

anyways the point is as long as you are not hurting youself of others, you can stim as much as you like ♡ - The Dreamdrop System

art credit - Kateryna Davydenko

[autisticdreamdrop]

US BIG/LOUD STIMMERS ARE VALID OKAY NOT SORRY IM LOUD AF

[dreamdropdollop]

you be doing big stims?? fuck yeah dude

[autisticdreamdrop]

you be doing big stims?? fuck yeah dude