there's like soo many youtubers that point for point tell the story of 'i wanted to have a natural birth w midwife/doula, i laboured for over a day, they had to give me an emergency c-section, now i have major trauma and/or post-partum anxiety'. and these are people who WANTED the birthing process, they WANTED to experience the process of pregnancy and birth and having a child, they're well-off youtubers and had options about how they wanted to do this process, and it still nearly killed them and the child they so desperately wanted to have. i get that religious conservatives think that god will save you, or it's god's will when something terrible happens. you'd have to have that alien kind of a worldview to be so cavalier about birth which is probably the most fucked up thing that the human body does on purpose.