i read why you aren't writing for shinee/kibum rn, but why do you still write for jonghyun?? it feels wrong to read about him when it feels like he should be put to rest (in a literal sense) so is there a reason you still do works and requests for him?? ive noticed some other people also decide to write for him still, so this may help me understand that as well
Sorry but this will kinda long to explain 😅 just saying before I start that in no way shape or form is this meant to come off as rude btw🩷
So, to start off; blingers are still extremely active, just like the rest of shawols. Taemints, lockets, MVPs, and flamers, can read fanfics of their bias, they can easily find hc’s for Taemin, Minho, Kibum, or Jinki, but blingers can’t. It’s completely unfair to say that just because he is no longer with us, we shouldn’t still enjoy his content, his music, fanfics, and fanart. Also, I’ve been a shawol for almost two years now and as a taemint/blinger, I want to see people still loving Jonghyun and being able to think of him happily. Talking about him isn’t sad, remembering him isn’t bad, he’s a lot more than just that moment, so writing for him is normal.
Also, I did let people vote to see if anyone would be made uncomfortable by seeing smut written of him and the majority said no, not only did the majority say no but I even got messages from older shawols saying that they’d love to see it. I haven’t posted for SHINee in a while because of my writers block, but I still get asks for him. People want to see it and I like doing it.
And finally, he’s still apart of SHINee. The members themselves constantly acknowledge that SHINee is five, they constantly mention him, from tagging him in their concert posts, talking about him, making jokes about him, and he’s always included in every SHINee event. So, for me and others who also write for him and who are still active blingers it’s just including all the members because at the end of the day, SHINee will be five no matter how long it’s been. Saying that he should be put to rest kinda sounds like you mean that people should just move on and forget him, but it would be a shame to let all of his amazing music fade into nothing. Micheal Jackson still has active fans who listen to his music, draw him, write fan fictions about him, edit him, and make the most downbad tweets about him I’ve ever seen. The fans will be there no matter where the artist goes, and Jonghyun is the same way. No matter if he’s here or not, we as fans will always be here enjoying his music and loving him. Remembering him and enjoying his music isn’t disturbing the rest and the peace he’s getting, it’s just appreciating and love him.
hey guys, since people were still liking my old post i made about this discord server, i decided to make a repost with a brand new link. (i am not currently running this server, it’s my friend but he’ll be welcoming anyone that chooses to enter!)
it’s a safe space for shawols, especially blingers. i made it due to the fact i had bad experiences going to kpop servers as a jonghyun stan. making my own server gives me a sense of comfort and belonging, as i know how it feels to be disrespected constantly. (so trust me when i say you’re safe here)
please enter! i’ve worked so hard just for shawols, because i want people to have a good time while in the server. there’s so much you could do, which is so funny. i have 10s of channels available, hopefully you’d be interested!
A server made by Blinger, for Blingers. Go to #verify to join the rest of the community! | 55 members
With all these years of being a Shawol and a Blinger, I had realised that you could summon other Blingers or 5hawols if you or that person comes out as such. All you have to do is mention Jonghyun’s tiddies and they should reply something like “Not gonna lie, he does have some nice tiddies.”
Congratulations. You had found a Blinger/5hawol in the wilderness. But let’s be real, we all knew that, right?
This lyric is from Jonghyun's song, "Love is So Nice." In the song, Jonghyun sings about hanging out with someone he loves, them both being incredibly comfortable around each other.
He sings about them being warm during a cold night, mentioning a chimney and two people cuddling together. It's truly a very sweet song, and it definitely warms my heart, every time I hear it.
Have any of you ever had a person in your life that you can keep warm with, on a cold winter night? To many, Jonghyun was that person, even though many of us were very far apart from him. He was definitely that person for me. He was that person that you could be comfortable around him and be yourself as well. When I first became a fan of Jonghyun, I always wanted to be everyone but myself, and while I still sometimes have those moments, it's definitely progressed from before I discovered Jonghyun. And I'm sure the feeling was, and still is, mutual.
Today or tonight, I encourage you to be closer to someone you love dearly and stay warm together.
