#blocking is healthy

[abitchisdead]

last night

I am working on allowing things to roll off my back, especially in fandom when it should be fun.

but that interaction dug up a lot of ugly memories. I won’t dive into the details but use the block button. You don’t have to engage with my posts.

Im a speck online. Block. Don’t let it upset you.

also had bad knee pain that kept me awake. So, today is just going to be rough all around

[autisticzenitsu]

Oh for fuck's sake.

"Oh, you blocked me cause you're embarrassed"

No, I blocked you cause you're a pathetic cyberbully and a bigot. You're annoying, not worth my time, and I don't want to deal with you.

[abitchisdead]

my time writing for TWD is over. my works have been pulled.

i might delete this Tumblr. I know one thing for sure? I am leaving for a break. Should you want to chatter, feel free to ask for Discord or other means.

[abitchisdead]

imagine going through my blog and triggering yourself when the block button was your first option 🖤

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

where's the "sorry i blocked but tumblr kept recommending you and i saw stuff i strongly disliked only because i was annoyed by it i don't dislike you its not personal" button

[nebulous-aroace-from-outerspace]

sometimes i have this fear that just because i'm autistic and have a similar personality type to another ND person who is NOT like me at all that i'm gonna get claims that i'm copying a certian person or that exact person that i do not want to mirror anymore and never even knew about until recently and it feels like a personal attack whenever they post now because i feel like i'll get compared to them even when i've been in the fandom longer and they were able to get popular with no effort at all does that make sense

[halinski]

Y'know what's also great about blocking? You can filter stuff that you like but cannot predict and then decide based on your current mood/state of mind if you want to view the post or not

Now and then its a little annoying but it's working better for me than panicking and exiting the app and feeling like its not a safe space anymore

[unoutan]

but @/sorenly is a bkdk fan? I'm really confused lol

Oh shit, you’re right. I thought they were an an/ti baku/deku by their response, so I was quick to not interact anymore. (I’ve blocked many hateful people on this site, so I wasn’t really shocked if I accidentally talked to one-who could have made that bkdk post sarcastically) Thanks for telling me anon!

I likely offended them with my response on their post that was further describing the deku vs. kacchan part 2 fight. They said what I said was predatory, which I thought it was just a baku/deku joke or something, since it’s obvious all baku/deku fans want Bakugou and Deku to develop as characters together and be friends/future wonder duo heroes -cough- with all the otp love feels -cough- 

So if they think that, then it’s best we mutual block. I don’t want to accidentally interact with them again and they get upset. I’d rather talk and enjoy things from other bakudeku fans. 

So it’s okay, anon. And you likely know this, but don’t be afraid to block people. I bet folks blocked me already from either annoyance or they hate baku/deku. Such is the hellsite fandom life. -Unoutan

edit: added more slashes bc didn’t want to clog my favorite otp tag