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age
age is a very complicated matter within systems, but i feel like on important thing to say is that BODY AGE COMES FIRST. i do not care if you're both the same age alter-wise, if your body ages are illegally different (adult and minor, ect) then you should not be dating. yes alter age can sometimes affect the maturity of alters but it differs from system to system and body age should always come first before you start to bring up alter age / consider it
It feels really weird being an adult alter in a minors body. While the body is 17, I, a fictive and protector who is 24, feels...really old. Sure, it's only 7 years, and I'm not the oldest, but I'm close to it. Most of the other alters are 12, 15, 17, or have a non-specific age, but only 5 of us are older than 20. It just feels really, really weird.
Oof yeah, we definitely feel this! A few of our parts are older than our body, and many of us are much younger. As we get older, that age difference becomes less of a big deal for our older parts, but much more stressful for our littles.
We’re sure this is a problem that lots of system members face in all kinds of systems! Just one of the intricacies of being plural. We hope things get easier for you as time passes, though! Wishing you and your alters the very best in your future!
can anyone explain to me how it's wrong to date a person who is bodily your same age? because ppl are saying if they have an alter that isn't an adult that means you cant date them? are these systems doomed to never date?.. because if you date someone it is their whole self, so would you have to stop talking to them if their alter starts fronting?
it really depends. Body age comes first of course, but alter age can sometimes matter. It depends on the systems, for some of them alter age genuinely means the maturity of those alters, for others it's just a thing the alters identify with I guess? So it depends on the system and their personal preference, but again body age always has to come first.
hottakes committe plz help me:
insys im 16 and have a crush on an insys 18 year old
is the age gap suspicious? does being in the same system affect the perceived creepiness of agegap relationships? (ik its just a two year gap but like im technically a minor and he’s technically an adult..?)
- ⚠️ anon
it really depends. How does alter age in your system function, does it matter for you personally, ect. Body age always comes first and it's non uncommon for systems to have odd in system relationships (such as large age gaps, or "incestual" relationships, usually due to trauma), so it depends how your system sees it and how alter age personally affects you (does it affect alter maturity, or is it just something alters identify with, ect). Others feel free to give your opinions but be nice.
My age 51 my body is much older
My age 51 my body is much older
It’s my birthday tomorrow. 51!!! I’m middle age. I think my body has been middle age since I was 43. That was when multiple sclerosis hit me with the last relapse that started my path of true disability. It’s been 8 years since that last relapse. It was when I was switching from Tysabri to Rituxan. I made the mistake of stopping Tysabri because I actually had the thought of switching to an…
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